MasterMasseur's Massage Interview
Do you remember your first client ? Tell us something about that first day when you decided to be a Masseur!
My first "BONDAGE MASSAGE" client was an elderly gentleman who had no experience with the practice of Bondage but curious to explore. Needless to say, he was a little nervous, almost as much as I was! I had performed thousands of Sensual & Erotic Massage before so I was used to meeting new people and putting them at ease, but this was quiet different. It was a very powerful experience I'll never forget. He has become a regular client. That first session helped me to understand the responsibility of tantric masseurs and the trust that we must develop with our clients.
Some people say that being a Masseur is addictive. Would you miss your Masseur days ?
Yes I would miss it and will continue to do it for as long as I can. To have the power of touch and to be able to feel so much in another person is an incredible thing.
Do you consider yourself a successful Masseur?
Yes, I try to do massage well and to effect others in a positive way. I'm still learning new things with every person and every session but that is what makes this so interesting and powerful. It makes me happy when my clients experience something that they have never experienced before. I want them to learn more about themselves and the pleasure they are capable of receiving. That is My measure of success.
Tell us a little about yourself, if you were to pick something what would you like your clients to absolutely know about you?
I believe in energy and that you get back what you give out. Energy surrounds us and I use it in every session. there is much to learn about our bodies and I just try to listen.
How would you like someone that contacts you for a massage to feel when they leave?
I want them to feel empowered and completely satisfied. It is their body that has created the feelings they have felt, I simply allowed them to unlock those feelings and sensations.
What are your hobbies, what do you like to do in your spare time?
I love foreign, art and independent films. I go to the art house theater every week and sometimes see 2 or 3 movies. I love to cook, exercise my body, bowling, traveling and meeting people of different cultures.
Why did you become a Masseur?
It just felt right for me. It would help me learn more about energy, ***uality, humanity and anatomy. I needed something that would feed me and make me grow as a person.
What advice would you give to someone who wants to be a Masseur?
Your hands are not your only tools. The most important tools are kindness, compassion and empathy. LISTEN.....
What distinguishes you from all the other Masseurs?
We are all unique and amazing in our own right. I believe what distinguishes me is the wide range of experiences that I offer. I love what I do and feel it is unique because it comes from within me. Massage is more than just stroking someone's body. It's about listening and understanding, being there for someone. I really care about how my clients feel before, during and after the session. I want them to have a truly unique experience and I want them to come back to me.
How long have you been a Masseur and how long do think you'd like to continue?
I have been working as a tantric masseur and offering my Bondage Massage Session for 10 years. It's an ongoing process and I'd like to continue for as long as I can.
How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or are you more of a homebody?
I have wonderlust and have traveled both in the states and internationally. However, Due to my busy massage schedule, I have not traveled very far in the past few years. I have become more of a homebody.
Is extensive training necessary for a Masseur in order to be successful?
Yes, experience is necessary but that experience and knowledge does not necessarily come from a text book. Experience comes from each new experience in life, each new person and each new session. We grow and learn when we put all of ourselves into what we do.
How do you like clients to feel about the experience when they leave?
I want to L(oo)K at them and see them SATISFIED & GLOWING! I want them excited to come back for another BONDAGE MASSAGE and to see me again, of course!