BearHealer's  Blog

The tension of the election has been a lot. Regardless of who or what you voted for, and whether your candidate or legislation was chosen, the intensity of the messaging, the number of interruptions, the uncertainty, and the divisive nature of elections as a whole might have left you sad, raw, disappointed, elated, or a little bit of all. Me too.

On November 6 I was able to do two sessions for men, one a recurring client, and the second a brand new client to me who was in Denver for a conference when the election results were read. I don't want to speak for them, but I do know they were exhausted from the ordeal, neither had slept well, and emotions were all over the place. We were able to work together to do energy clearing work, to sink in together, to just be - one in total silence, the other with lots of discussion - and release some of the pain they were feeling during the massage session.

These big changes affect every single cell in our bodies, especially when changes are so much out of our control. If you need some relief from the overwhelm and grief consider booking a session. Peace and love for you. Be kind to yourself in the days ahead.

Recently, I have had some clients, concerned about their body size or hairiness, reach out prior to their appointments to confirm that it is okay to come in. They have faced rejection elsewhere due to their physical attributes. To those who have encountered such experiences, I extend my sincerest apologies and an invitation to let me assist you.

I understand that seeking massage/touch is often more than just a quest for pain or stress relief; it is a pursuit of a compassionate, judgment-free environment where one can feel cared for. I assure you, in my healing space, every client is welcomed and embraced, irrespective of body size, hairiness, or any other concern that might cause apprehension.

My approach to healing is rooted in creating a secure and inclusive space for all men, or those who identify as men, ensuring a respectful and high-quality experience from start to finish. If you have any hesitations, I encourage you to reach out to me. We can discuss your concerns and ensure that you receive the nurturing healing you seek and richly deserve.

My commitment is to provide a safe haven for any man who wishes to have a session.

As autumn settles in here in Colorado, with the first snowfall of the season over the weekend, it becomes all the more vital to seek solace and rejuvenation in the company of others. This morning, I awoke feeling a deep sense of isolation and the chill in the air and an overall challenge to get out of bed. It surprised a friend when I confided in them, revealing that even someone as jovial as myself can have their share of darker or more challenging days.

As the days grow colder and the nights longer, it's easier to succumb to that pervasive feeling of loneliness. There's something about the darkness that magnifies the presence of inner demons like fear, overwhelm, and doubt.

In such moments, healing touch can make all the difference. I would love to support you with a healing session. It will not only lighten your mood, but it will do the same for me - I especially love the opportunity to see new or returning clients this time of year. Together, we can share and embark on the journey of healing the body and the soul.

I posted my profile only one month ago when I was on vacation in Hawaii with my partner and some friends. I was looking for a way to expand the number of healing sessions I could do while also working on my career as an artist. Both serve me in different ways and I am so grateful to have found RM as a way to support me.

I am even more grateful for the men who have come to see me and do session work with me. I have been blessed to have men of all ages, colors, shapes and sizes. They have shared vulnerably about what they want while working with me and why this, why now. More than anything I can see that many are starved for kind and healing touch and I am so grateful that I get to provide a place for kindness, touch, and a friendly smile. I look forward to what we can create together!

I’ve been practicing and playing with this idea to be on RentMasseur for some time now and just recently got up the gumption to create a profile. I have a number of years experience creating great experiences for people on my table and I look forward to bringing that to the men of RM.

If you could love yourself more, enjoy your body extra, or could use a healer to share with, I’m your guy. Excited to support where you are and for what you need.