FriendlyBull's  Blog

Hey guys! Just wanted to explain why I've been gone the last few months. I was promoted on my full time job again (yay!). But this promotion added a shit ton of work for me. My job consumed my life for the last 3 months. But I hired and trained an amazing superstar team and now I'm back to having a normal schedule again. So here's to my return to making you beautiful people feel amazing and relaxed.

I must give an amazing foot rub because some guys have asked me if I have a foot fetish. Lol I don't, sorry boys haha I'm not into feet.

My partner of six years is 5'7 320lbs. So he's a pretty big beautiful man. And walking around on those feet all day, he regularly needed a good foot massage. So I've been rubbing on feet since long before I had any training in massage. I do enjoy doing it but don't worry, I won't be trying any funny business while I'm down there. Just relaxing, healing pleasure.

I became suspicious that maybe he had not even come when he said he went inside... inside? Inside of the studio that only the owner and I have the code for? Hmmmm... I brought this to his attention and he said someone let him in. I called the owner to ask if he was there, he hadn't. There's no lobby lol you walk right into the studio. There was nobody there. We know there are people who hate us and just want to waste our time and money. So it's not so crazy to think that he may just be a flake having some fun at my expense. But, in the same way, this guy could have just gone to the wrong place.

After going back and forth on the site (messages not in real time so the thread is a hot, confusing mess). He became frustrated and blocked me before I could apologize for the inconvenience.

Because we didn't trust each other, he missed out on a great massage and I missed out on a potential new client. How can we get to a point where we have a little more trust in each other? Is it possible? I used to charge a deposit for appointments because I didn't trust anyone. I've given that up and it's honestly been fine. What are your thoughts? Is this industry too risky to be a little vulnerable

So I had my first complaint today. This was mostly due to that initial lack of trust we have our first time meeting.

Let's get you up to speed on the details first:
I had an appointment for today. I asked my future client to text me. He didn't want to, which is already a red flag for me... But I continued with the booking anyway. We had an incall scheduled at a studio that I rent for massage. It's in a small office park on the east side of Las Vegas. On my way to the appointment, I got caught in traffic which put me about 5 minutes behind schedule. I communicated this to him and told him I'd let him know when I was there... Which I did. I waited a while for a response and didnt get one. I stood in front of the door of the studio so that anyone there could see me. I didn't see him. I messaged him again and finally got a response saying "I drove by, you didn't tell me you were here". This confirmed that the site was not delivering our messages in real time. I again asked him to text me, he again refused. He doesn't trust me. I don't trust him.