HANDDEEMAN's Massage Interview
Do you remember your first client ? Tell us something about that first day when you decided to be a Masseur!
I do. Back then I was just starting fresh out of school, I had been massaging for free up until then. Once I graduated it was time to put I fee behind the service. Fresh out of school, I worked for one of those corporate massage places. I didn't like not being able to be in control of my work. I knew that I could do and be better that the place I worked. Besides, I like being naked and at those spots I couldn't be. My first on this site was one to remember. According to him, this was the first time that he went to "this type of service." My response was "it's my first time getting paid, I use to just do it for free!" That was how I began my first paid independent gig.
Tell us a little about yourself, if you were to pick something what would you like your clients to absolutely know about you?
I do all types of massages, but my favorite is the sensual erotic. I love it because of the power of a sensual physical touch. It is calming and soothing. It releases endorphins and makes one reach a sort of energy plataue. I'm an energy sensor and mover. I'm also a pleaser meaning that my erotic satisfaction comes from the happy experience of my client.
Why did you become a Masseur?
It was brainless, once i confirmed that i was actually able to sense and feel the energy of others, there was nothing more to think about. I knew this was my lane.
How would you like someone that contacts you for a massage to feel when they leave?
As they are slowly getting up from the table, I want them to say to themselves "man...I needed that."
Do you consider yourself a successful Masseur?
13 years plus...clients in many many cities...self employed.. YES!
How long have you been a Masseur and how long do think you'd like to continue?
It's been 13 years. My work brings healing and happiness, the thought of not wanting to bridge these hasn't come across my mind. The world needs more Happy people and I'm here to help.
How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or are you more of a homebody?
I prefer to work from my studio. But since the business grew, there has been more of a demand that I do "out calls." Then when I got more clients, they began to invite me to their cities. These days I tend to travel every other month or when a specific request is made.
Some people say that being a Masseur is addictive. Would you miss your Masseur days ?
I use this as a source of income and it has been a tremendous networking opportunity. I have been able to leverage these connections in so many aspects of my life. "Miss" is an understatement.
How do you like clients to feel about the experience when they leave?
They ask for more.
What are your hobbies, what do you like to do in your spare time?
When I'm not being a dad, I'm big on meditation and going to the gym.
What advice would you give to someone who wants to be a Masseur?
Stand firm in your boundaries. Not all money is good $$$.
What distinguishes you from all the other Masseurs?
I haven't met anyone on here therefore it wouldn't be fair to make a comparison. I can that I'm an incredibly warm soul with tons of passion about healing through touch. Because of this job, I've met a ton of people (guests) who I can call homies now. The reputation that I have earned has given me acess to social circles which under normal circumstances I would not be previed to. It's humbling. My appreciation goes out to each person who has entrusted me with their bodies. All the experiences were a blessing. I'm also grateful to those who check out my profile consider exchanging sensual energies.
Is extensive training necessary for a Masseur in order to be successful?
Yes, and just as important is wanting to leave the guest in a much better space then when they walked through the door.