Mellowww's  Blog

Coming to a masseur’s place first time is quite a challenge! It has its risks and rewards:


***** Risks if the vibe doesn’t work, or the place is not oozing with welcoming vibes, messy, hot/cold, irritating light, or simply not your Feng shui!!!
***** Rewards are spicy! The adrenalin rush of expectations, of the unknown, that fear which, instead of scaring you - arouses you. You may have that dry mouth and a heartbeat expecting an excellent experience, hoping that the masseur’s pictures are accurate and up to date and his voice and body language do not make you cringe.

I’m adrenaline-driven, and I find such experiences incredibly refreshing, mentally and physically!

I might overthink it, but I believe this frame of mind, a blueprint of the “first visit to a masseur,” is well aimed in my description. So, being deeply aware of such a layout of meeting your masseur - I make sure that my client, my guest, instantly gets the best vibes from me! And first and foremost - it starts with that welcoming smile from a pure mind! Self-realized, deliberate yet genuine smile!

My welcome smile says: I am confident, present, kind, open-minded, happy to see you, and excited to get to know you; you are here to be comforted! Speaking, I leave space to ensure we have an equal conversation that comes with ease.

Also, I meet naturally nervous people with fast, tense inner paces. Because I believe it comes from a place of insecurities, I kindly notice that jitter and offer to slow down and relax that mind for joy. It is like caring for a younger bro who needs reinforcement that he is doing great!

I discuss with my client the massage sequence, explaining what to expect.

Some clients are prone to chat during the action. I try to keep it silent because any chatter interferes with the essence of my work - widespread, enhanced meditation to be done in silence; moans are welcomed! I start in a way when any talking disappears. I emerge my guest in the world of Sensations and Satisfaction, and he knows that he made the right choice coming to me, and there is nothing to worry about! For the next 80 min, he dissolves in peace and pleasure - he is in good hands!

Upon massage completion, I leave a quiet space; my client needs time to return to a presence again!

Over the years of abundant experience, I discovered a whole new identity in me, a character, a persona that evolved from an amateur to a spiritual being with the appreciation of human experience, needs, gifts, and physicality.

**I found the importance of celebrating these hidden realms of being a human - gifts of pleasure and physical needs: to feel good, sensual, touched. We are spiritual beings; however, it is essential to embrace our physicality! I feel bitter for people missing out on these earthly gifts of human nature. We are here, embodied, for a reason. My mission as a masseur is to celebrate life as a human being, not a spiritual being; to celebrate our bodies - our temples, and I am sure that’s why we live our earthy life! Let’s take it all! I love to evoke a human in you.

**My massage routine is elevated to the point when my clients witness a state of mind that can be called "transcendence." And by the way - as a masseur - I experience the same because giving massages for me - is a way to show love.

***This space is where I express my alternate identity and expect no judgment or stigma. It is my life and I live with my own manual!***