SensualJesse's Massage Interview
Do you remember your first client ? Tell us something about that first day when you decided to be a Masseur!
We always remember our first client! I was definitely nervous wanting to to the bets job possible. He arrived and was very lovely, kind and respectful. I started by a having a chat with what he was looking for and what he wanted to get from the experience. Then we moved on to my undressing ceremony where we slowly peel each others clothes off until we stand there in our underwear. I always start with a body to body hug to get our skin, bodies and nervous systems aligned. It's very sensual. Then we take our underwear off and you get on the table to let me start the work with my magic hands.
Some people say that being a Masseur is addictive. Would you miss your Masseur days ?
I am definitely addicted to giving men pleasure. I have met and got intimate and sensual with all kinds of men from all kinds of backgrounds, colours, shapes and sizes, and I truly love exploring each body, and letting them explore mine. It is a beautiful thing!
Do you consider yourself a successful Masseur?
Success as a massuer is measured by your amount of return clients. And I have many many satisfied returning customers. They often tell me it's the best experience they've had with a massuer. I think they can feel my authenticity and love for giving a sensual and erotic experience. They don't call me Jesse Best for nothing! HAHA!
Tell us a little about yourself, if you were to pick something what would you like your clients to absolutely know about you?
I am a classical musician, professionally trained at Royal Academy of Music and massage funds me to do my music, as we all know musicians don't get paid very much. My clients often say that I work with their body as if it is an instrument. I am a pianist and flautist so I am good with my hands. Massage is all about rhythm and movement.
How would you like someone that contacts you for a massage to feel when they leave?
Expanded, loved, adored, appreciated, respected, ***y, attractive, happy. And most importantly I want everyone to know that we are ALL sensual and ***ual. Maybe you haven't had the opportunity to experience the full power of your sensuality due to not being successful on apps, in dating or meeting people because you're an introvert or shy? But when you leave my massage you will have contacted and touched your deep erotic sensuality and I hope you carry it with you into your life.
What are your hobbies, what do you like to do in your spare time?
I would say I am spiritual so I love reading books about Spirituality. I love the cosmos and space and love to geek out on documentaries, podcasts and talks on the subject. I go to the gym 4 times a week to stay in shape for my clients - they really like my toned athletic guy next door body as opposed to the intimidating gym buff guys! :o) I love nature and walking and cooking and being with my friends.
Why did you become a Masseur?
I received a sensual massage many years ago and it was one of the best erotic experiences I ever had up to then. So I trained and started and never looked back. I adore it!
What advice would you give to someone who wants to be a Masseur?
Do it because you love it and are passionate about it. Work on dropping your judgements around the way people look, everyone is beautiful and sensual inside and you'll surprised at what turns you on once you start working with a range of different men. And be kind. IF you give happy endings, don't let them jut get up and leave. Let them relax, touch them, let them swim in their energy! :o) x
What distinguishes you from all the other Masseurs?
My authenticity. I am not looking to get it over and done with. I pour every ounce of my love into massages. I am also not the standard gym buff guy on these websites. A lot of men find it intimidating and they really like my toned guy next door body! And my approach to playing the body like an instrument.
How long have you been a Masseur and how long do think you'd like to continue?
7 years now and I'll carry on for as long as I love it. I do take breaks every now and then so I don't get bored. I always want to give my full passion so if I feel myself getting bored I'll take a break and come back fresh raring to go!
How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or are you more of a homebody?
I don't travel much with massage although I am thinking of it. I prefer seeing clients at my place where I am comfortable and know the lay of land.
Is extensive training necessary for a Masseur in order to be successful?
I do not think 'extensive' training is necessary. I think it's useful to do a course so you become familiar with some techniques and the body, but I've done all kinds of trainings and I now I have let go of it all and use my intuition. But yes do a course and then make it your own. Nobody wants to feel like you're using a cookie cutter approach or a system on them. No massage should ever be the same as another in my opinion.
How do you like clients to feel about the experience when they leave?
That they were loved and adored and respected. I want them to feel like they want to come back. And that they are attractive and sensual and erotic beings. I want them to take what they learn about themselves with me and use it in their other interactions sensually and erotically.