Xcesivrob's  Blog

Grass does not try to grow.
Grass just grows.

I read this year's ago and thought to
myself, The guy who wrote this is a guru?

Years later I read about the word “trying”.
Stop trying and start doing.
I remembered, grass doesn’t try… it grows.

Personalize it.
Take out grass.
Put in your name.

Robert does not try to grow.
Robert grows

It feels like the molecular structure of my brain
shifts instantly.
Self doubt shrinks
Confidence grows

We grow. We change and evolve effortlessly.
I can use all of my will power and my physical strength to help
myself grow, but it would be a waste of my
Resources.

The author’s point was and still is profound.
Whenever life, my direction, or relationships become uncertain, I don't have to try to make them something I want them to be.

I can allow myself, everyone, and everything in my life to just be.
Trying to change people & things is unnecessary.
Acceptance is the answer to life’s questions.
Everyone gets to be exactly what they were created to be. I don’t need to try and help anyone.

There is a Divine order in the universe.
If I try to change the order… it’s not good.
When I accept life as it is today,
It’s better.
Always!

If you want to get more action on the platforms where guys go to meet guys OR where guys go to meet ladies??

Follow these simple Guidelines:

Photograph ALWAYS.
The best you can give. Professional or amateur by a friend.
Face Pic & Body Pic minimum.

Responses on App & to people contacting you.

BE:
1. Genuine
2. Cool & Confident & Courteous
3. Real
4. Kind and Thoughtful
5. Patient

DO NOT BE:
1. Arrogant
2. Rude
3. Condescending
4. Immature
5. Impatient

ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Who you are seeking is already seeking you too.
Open your heart. It’s ok to be a little vulnerable.
Don’t send nudes with your face… they might be a
catfisher anyway! lol

HAVE FUN!
- Robert

Feel good about life....

Surround yourself with awesome people.
People who smile and say nice things about others.
Be kind and people will be kind to you.
Kindergarten lessons work well in grown up life.

It’s easy to get bombarded by people’s intense energy.
It’s just as easy to ignore it and not allow it into your head space.
Do not let other people’s crazy energy get you down.
Let them keep it all. Smile and keep moving.
Keep going high, not low.

Create the day in front of you. Set intentions for yourself.
Create the life you want to live.
You are not here to make everybody happy.
Focus on your happiness and everyone around you who matters will be happier.

Make your dreams and your wildest imaginations your reality.
Why not? You have nothing to lose. Neither do I...Let’s Do It!
We all have the power, but we usually lack the focus and determination.

Today, I’m going to focus my energy on the good things in my life.
Today my determination to succeed is greater than my determination to fail.
I can achieve whatever I believe.

Have a great day,
Robert

Today I am grateful for my body.
I love my body,
I am thankful for this incredible, complex framework that is me.
I am in awe of my body’s ability to repair, and regenerate itself.
I feed my body healthy food and drink so I may flourish with vibrant health,
Today, I strive to meet my fitness goals.
Divine energy flows through my bloodstream.
I am a radiant being.
I see the perfection in myself and everyone around me.
I honor this physical vehicle I call my body.
Namaste

Affirmation challenge:

I encourage you to say this affirmation in a mirror to yourself for the next 30 days.
Let me know how this affirmation impacts you!

Robert

Friends are an important part of my life.
I value my friendships.
The comfort, laughter, and support given helps me grow.
I have become a better human because of my friends.

One of the great life lessons taught through friendships
Is giving and receiving.
What I received has been directly proportional to what I gave.

It’s important to remember friends volunteer their time and energy.
So, Don’t neglect your friends!

Inevitably, one of us outgrows the other,
That’s ok. Let them go. Be thankful they touched your life.
Bless them.

The sweet rare gift this life sometimes affords us is
friendships that last a lifetime.

Life is simple.
If you want good friends,
be a good friend.
.
- Robert

As the pandemic surges across the country and world again it is imperative to share my safety practices.

1.) I wear a sterilized mask before, during,and after contact with everyone.

2.) I use disinfectants to clean every surface before and after every visit.

4.) I rarely go out in public but, when I do? I wear a mask and practie social distancing.

5.) Everything that can be ordered and delivered online is ordered and delivered!

6.) I pray for every man, woman, and child on the planet.
May health, peace and love be restored.

I hope this gives you clarity today.
Masks aren’t political... they protect.

- Robert Shaler 🙏🏻

The Law of Attraction is a very simple concept.
It is a law that governs the entire universe..
I encourage everyone to begin today!

Old thoughts and fears must be let go.
A life altering new perspective is gained!!
Begin saying this now, “ everything always works out for me “
“I experience love everywhere from everyone “ ❤️❤️❤️
New thoughts take time, patience, and practice.
Be gentle with yourself.
Allow this new way of living flow easily and effortlessly.
Just do it!

The law of attraction is the method to attract into our lives what we focus on.
Focus on checks and money pouring into your bank accounts.... in time money and checks will appear.
The universe makes your thoughts and words manifest into your actual experience here on earth.
If we focus on bills, lack of money, and nothing working out ....sad to say.... that’s what will be attracted. Life will get darker and more miserable.

Let go of limitations today. We are unlimited beings!
Create the life and experience you want.
The law of attraction will make it happen with the power of your thoughts and words and deeds!

Love and Peace,
Robert

It’s just as easy to think happy thoughts as it is to dwell on sad thoughts.
I am the only thinker in my mind.
I create my experiences in my imagination first.
As I dwell on my hopes and dreams everything within me conspires to manifest my thoughts.

Today I will think happy thoughts.
Thoughts of gratitude.

I send out thoughts of peace and love to every child, woman, and man.... every living being on earth today!

- Robert

When I was a young man, I often wondered how I would become the man I was meant to be.

I never found the answer, but I did push forward to live the most amazing life I could possibly live.

I enjoyed the challenge of creating my destiny!

As a young adult, everything felt like an incredible adventure.
It was exciting and satisfying.

Sometimes it all felt perfect.
Sometimes it hurt like hell.

Life broke me down many times.
The hard times taught me how to grow, to evolve, and to stretch beyond my capacities.
I learned from the painful experiences
It took every experience, painful or beautiful, to shape me into the man I am today.

My character was shaped by a simple desire to become a good man. One who would constantly strive to be and to do his best.

Everything happened for a reason.
Everything happened the way it was meant to happen.
If it was supposed to be different.... it would have been different.

I am grateful today for the amazing life given to me.

There’s still plenty of time for each and everyone of us to become who we are meant to be.

My only advice is to do your best today... keep it simple.
Easy.

Live your best life!

I’ll continue to live mine!

- Robert

Everyone has a Purpose in Life.

Purpose is Divine.
Every human being has a divine mission to accomplish on earth.

Do you know yours?
What are the unique talents and gifts you’ve been given?

Each of us has a special talent or gift nobody else was given.
I do some things easily and effortlessly that other people find impossible.
However, I find many things impossible that other people do effortlessly.
Do the things you’re good at doing. Do that which brings you Joy!
You’re special!!
You’re one in almost eight billion people,
You have unique abilities and talents nobody else has on this planet!

When our special talents, gifts, and abilities are combined with a sincere desire to help and serve others we have found our Purpose In Life.

I hope you believe we live in a friendly universe.
The entire universe is waiting for you to get into alignment with your purpose... some say, your Destiny.
The entire universe is waiting to conspire with you to achieve your purpose!

Simple prayer:
Universe, please help me. I am ready!

I affirm your declaration to the universe!

Together we are stronger.
Together we can change the World!

And so it is,

-Robert

We all have a choice every morning when we wake up.

We can be GRATEFUL for everything
OR can be HATEFUL we don’t have enough.

1.) Grateful for Everything

Some examples:
Breath, sleep, bed, sheets & pillows, teeth, toothpaste, toothbrush, food to eat, clothes, socks, shoes.............
It’s so easy to take simple everyday things for granted!
We must remember that many people around the globe ( and even in our home towns and cities ) consider these items luxuries.

2.) Never enough

Some examples:
wish my car was nicer, house was bigger, wish I was shopping in NYC today & had billions of dollars. $$$

Successful people worldwide have an attitude of gratitude.

Give thanks for EVERYTHING that comes into your life each day.
You will receive more!

This is the law of attraction in the universe.
What we put our attention on grows.
It comes easily to us Good or Bad.
Put your attention on what you want.
Give thanks for all you have been given.
If you complain about everything, you’re creating lack & loss.
Every complaint pushes your dreams farther away.

Think, hope, and believe in your highest & best life.
Create it now with your words!

Choose well my friends

Robert

My personal fitness journey began when I was in my late twenties.

My personal wellness journey began in my thirties and is still going strong today. For this I am grateful.

My wellness journey encompasses my entire being.

Body | Mind | Soul

The law of giving and receiving.
Everything in our lives and everything in the universe operates through dynamic exchange according to Deepak Chopra.
Every spiritual leader since the beginning of man has a version of this truth.

* When I give my body clean, healthy food I receive a higher quality of wellness.

* When I give my mind rich, intellectually stimulating content I receive knowledge, peace of mind, and discernment. Mental wellness.

* When I take time to be alone, meditate, and focus on my connection to nature and all living beings I receive emotional balance and my version of spiritual wellness.

Life today seems more uncertain than it ever has before for most of us,
but life is uncertain.
The only certainty in this world is uncertainty.
It doesn’t have to be dark and depressing.

Uncertainty can empower all of us because it is limitless.
There’s magic in the uncertainty.

Be well,

Robert