Xdiggity's  Blog

BOY, Did I sure miss the WEST COAST! I have been so excited to get back here and just as I had suspected my regulars flooded in and gave me a busy first two weeks back. I am very very grateful to you folks!

I've grown and evolved in the last year. Come into my skin as a full-time masseur. I didn't expect such a drastic change in feelings and attitude around my massage over the last while.. but, doing it full-time has allowed me to practice more and also has allowed me to see the gaps I have in my services. I have been able to fill those gaps and create more of a method and flow to the massage, but I've also gotten better at stopping and changing styles halfway through, so feel free to communicate if what is going on in the first 10 minutes is not the style you wanted :) and also if you want more massage or more edging, lets make something up for you in particular.

I am looking forward to summer with you folks here! I'll be tanned and sweaty, you'll be tanned and horny. It will be great ;)

So I should tell people what that means to me.... duh....

The only time I have experienced any awkwardness or uncomfortableness in my sessions or booking is when there hasn't been clarity or when plans change quickly... We all hate that. But in this line of work it dabbles in safety which is really important to me.. for me! and for you!!

Clarity and communication = respect to me

I love a greeting, Say hi. But also say who you are, what you are looking for, what you like about my profile, why you are here talking to me. I'm ALWAYS happy to talk to a new client ALWAYS, but when I feel like you aren't going to talk to me like I'm a human I lose interest immediately.

HI, Hey, U top?, sup? .. none of those will work with me. I am going to need to have a full on conversation with you to learn how I'm going to get you OFF. so help me out. It will be a hotter session if I feel like we can talk freely. hell, we will have a few laughs if we can get comfortable enough.

** IF ENGLISH IS NOT YOUR FIRST LANGUAGE BE PATIENT WITH ME, WE CAN FIND A WAY TO COMMUNICATE!

This morning I have been sitting in reflection around my experience as an erotic masseur in Toronto for the winter. I have big smiles for the whole sum of the adventure. The road trip across Canada with my dog Frida was one of the biggest life experiences I've ever had. I arrived in Toronto with a sense of self, a cheeky ego, and a big curiosity to learn more. I managed to do everything I wanted and more! Both in my personal life and within the realm of 'this' what I'm cautious to call work, proud to call my passion, and delighted to call a source for some meaningful connection. (Thanks for that, humans of Toronto!).

Toronto was really my first time; Living alone, Being East for an extended time, and setting up shop somewhere completely new. My emotions were like a rollercoaster but, I love being alive and experiencing challenge in new ways. Vancouver has been home for a long time, I was beginning to forget how adaptable I am and I love that about myself.

I am so grateful to the folks of all kinds in Toronto. You. are. Amazing. I cannot wait to come back next winter to do it all again... differently! way Way WAY more Organized and less ego.

Thanks ;)

I've had such a pleasure getting to know folks on this website. I am just reflecting on how grateful I feel. In particular, About the respect and courage shown to me! It's strange meeting folks under such specific circumstances but we have made it fun, haven't we! I am feeling very safe with my current client-base and look forward to seeing y'all regulars...regularly ;). Who knew people were just-- simply, people. I admire so many of you for all of your accomplishments in life. I only hope to make as such in my future as well. I can't wait to pay it forward and partake in services of other fellas on this site as well.

stay cool bros,