deeprelease's Personal Masseur Interview

Last Updated: Mar 28, 2015

- I often get comments from clients that they are relieved to have finally found an erotic masseur who can also give a really great massage. They're saying that they usually have to see 2 different people to fulfill what they're looking for. People use words like 'terrible' to describe other erotic massages. This doesn't surprise me so much, because real bodywork requires a lot of sensory awareness and an embodied understanding of being in relationship to oneself and others. These are things that are undervalued in the Western world and so they don't come naturally to everyone. My years of experience working in dance and participating in meditative, somatic practices combine with my authentic desire to do this work. Another comment I often get is that most erotic massages feel rushed. People really value the time that I take helping them to feel attended to on a deeply personal level. Anyone who does 'sex work' quickly realizes that most people are really looking for a sense of intimacy without expectation. I really hold that in my heart when I work. In the midst of that, I do extensive integrative work to address specific functional issues and help the body support the person.

- I was actually dating someone who didn't want to leave Berlin, even though we were just visiting and had tickets back to Canada. I asked him how he was going to make money as a foreigner and he came up with this idea of erotic massage. After a day of contemplating his choice, I decided to try it for myself. I actually had bodywork experience and always wanted to get more into it. The funny thing is my ex didn't stick with it for long and I never looked back. ;)