nicksantana's  Blog

Yesteryday I had an absolutely mind blowing session with a client. It was for a 90min special experience. In my BFE's, clients complete a 30min coaching session before the session itself so that I can get to know really what makes them tick, what they feel is missing from their lives that's creating a yearning or a desire for 'something more' and equally as important, what they definitely do NOT want in their lives and in turn, during their time with me.

I've often said, the success of a session is 50% me and 50% my client; we co-create something that can be magic if we do our parts. Well let me tell you, yesterday this gentleman CAME PREPARED to give all of him to me and in turn, me to him. What resulted was by far, one of the most moving an powerful sessions I've had the pleasure to be a part of.

It was so raw, so passionate, so sexual, HOT and deeply moving. If you're asking yourself how all of this can be possible in 1 session? It's because, the way my BFE's are set up they're meant to pull something out of you that you have either felt before, or have a very clear understanding that you want to feel. And then, it becomes true.

It's an honour to be of service!

Is what I had a client say to me last night. He was in disbelief that before every single client, I clean and sanitize my entire space from top to bottom (including the kitchen for some reason - that's my perfectionist streak not wanting to leave something half done), choose a scent for the meeting (followed up by lighting 2 candles, 2 incense, and 1 diffuser), choose lighting for the space (followed up by coordinating 6 seperate zones so that the energy and flow is sexy but cohesive) change all linens (obviously lol), choose music and then about an hour into doing that, end up having about 10mins to get myself ready (which according to my past clients, I do a farily good job at - thank you guys!).

A 1hr session, takes me about 70mins to get reay for and about 30mins to tear down if I'm not flipping it over for another client; if I am, then another 70minute repeat of the above.

Because here's the reality guys, you work hard for your money and theres no doubt in that; so I want to do everything in my power to give you a 5star experience that starts well before you arrive, but really picks up the "wow" factor the moment our eyes meet when I open my door :-).

xoxo Nick