KoltinPlowman

...is cleanliness.

When you show up for a massage, it is as respectful for us to be freshly showered and clean everywhere and scent free as much as possible, as it is for you to be the same.

My shower is available for all my clients who cannot get to one prior to the appointment. It is a hand-held, so there is no reason to miss cleaning everywhere. I do mean everywhere, even if I, your masseur, am not working there.

Odours and smells do rise, and an unpleasant time will mean we do not want you back, even if you want to re-book. Unpleasant smell can mean an insufficiently washed groin or anus or armpit or skin fold. It can also mean your best cologne or the incense you use or cigarette/cigar/herbal product you smoke.

Sure, ask if you can use the shower. Yes, it is ok to ask at booking if we are ok with any of the above, if that is part of who you are at home. We want you to be comfortable being you.

We prepare for your pleasant and effective and wonderful time with us, so you will come back. That is really what we want, and if you want to come back we need to feel respected in kind.

Your pleasure will be greater if we are not loathe to touch you, to work on your body.

Sometimes when a client comes to me for massage, for back/shoulder/neck/pelvic-sciatica reasons, for postural correction, and for personal training/Pilates/TRX work, and they see some of my Leathers, they are intrigued, and after a bit they will start to ask questions.

My environment is secure, safe, confidential, private; men respond to that, be they gay, bi, trans, str8, curious, whatever.

Asking about my stuff is perfectly fine. I have been doing massage and training for over 30 years, and in the Leather Community for about 20. There is much good therapeutic use of kink and fetish passtimes, and the freedom they give, spiritually, physically, mentally.

A massage or training session can become an intro to bdsm, kink, fetish play, and that is OK. Always. Massage is about relaxing and healing the physical, psychological, spiritual self. Some tools of massage are used in fetish and kink practices.

When I can share the joys of M/M kink, fetish, Leather, it makes me very happy, and their pleasure is heightened by my relaxed approach to what Play can include. It is not for me to judge their questions, but to answer informatively, educationally, because Informed Consent rocks!

You know what I love about doing massage? The men.
The energy of a testosterone-based body resonates in a way that excites, calms, and is total pleasure to me.
This life energy is called many things: Chi, Qi, Kundalini, for example. With men, my pleasure in touch is brought to a higher level, and I can focus on using the energy to not only get a deeper, personal, intimate connection, but also a deeper understanding of the issues of the man who is lying on my table.

It is meditative, and my instincts are heightened both for the "aligator brain" of base instincts, and for the cerebral/celestial/ethereal progression. These translate into an extremely precise massage, even though my hands do work everywhere on a man's body.

Precision? Targeted, which is encompassed in Unified healing, for the male body, mind, and masculine life energy pulsing. Uplifting. Totally. No matter what the underlying causes of the manifestations of stresses in the body are, I do not just treat the symptoms like so many people are used to getting.
Deep connection with a client makes for massage like no other. Men tell me nobody does what I do, and my session is totally worth repeating regularly.