KoltinPlowman's  Blog

...is cleanliness.

When you show up for a massage, it is as respectful for us to be freshly showered and clean everywhere and scent free as much as possible, as it is for you to be the same.

My shower is available for all my clients who cannot get to one prior to the appointment. It is a hand-held, so there is no reason to miss cleaning everywhere. I do mean everywhere, even if I, your masseur, am not working there.

Odours and smells do rise, and an unpleasant time will mean we do not want you back, even if you want to re-book. Unpleasant smell can mean an insufficiently washed groin or anus or armpit or skin fold. It can also mean your best cologne or the incense you use or cigarette/cigar/herbal product you smoke.

Sure, ask if you can use the shower. Yes, it is ok to ask at booking if we are ok with any of the above, if that is part of who you are at home. We want you to be comfortable being you.

We prepare for your pleasant and effective and wonderful time with us, so you will come back. That is really what we want, and if you want to come back we need to feel respected in kind.

Your pleasure will be greater if we are not loathe to touch you, to work on your body.

Sometimes when a client comes to me for massage, for back/shoulder/neck/pelvic-sciatica reasons, for postural correction, and for personal training/Pilates/TRX work, and they see some of my Leathers, they are intrigued, and after a bit they will start to ask questions.

My environment is secure, safe, confidential, private; men respond to that, be they gay, bi, trans, str8, curious, whatever.

Asking about my stuff is perfectly fine. I have been doing massage and training for over 30 years, and in the Leather Community for about 20. There is much good therapeutic use of kink and fetish passtimes, and the freedom they give, spiritually, physically, mentally.

A massage or training session can become an intro to bdsm, kink, fetish play, and that is OK. Always. Massage is about relaxing and healing the physical, psychological, spiritual self. Some tools of massage are used in fetish and kink practices.

When I can share the joys of M/M kink, fetish, Leather, it makes me very happy, and their pleasure is heightened by my relaxed approach to what Play can include. It is not for me to judge their questions, but to answer informatively, educationally, because Informed Consent rocks!

You know what I love about doing massage? The men.
The energy of a testosterone-based body resonates in a way that excites, calms, and is total pleasure to me.
This life energy is called many things: Chi, Qi, Kundalini, for example. With men, my pleasure in touch is brought to a higher level, and I can focus on using the energy to not only get a deeper, personal, intimate connection, but also a deeper understanding of the issues of the man who is lying on my table.

It is meditative, and my instincts are heightened both for the "aligator brain" of base instincts, and for the cerebral/celestial/ethereal progression. These translate into an extremely precise massage, even though my hands do work everywhere on a man's body.

Precision? Targeted, which is encompassed in Unified healing, for the male body, mind, and masculine life energy pulsing. Uplifting. Totally. No matter what the underlying causes of the manifestations of stresses in the body are, I do not just treat the symptoms like so many people are used to getting.
Deep connection with a client makes for massage like no other. Men tell me nobody does what I do, and my session is totally worth repeating regularly.

Do we?
For so many, touch has been lacking a lot, these past 2 years. Most of us don't realise how much we miss it in regular life, and now after 2 years of pandemic-distancing, now is your chance to balance the compounds and signals in your brain with Oxytocin. All massage produces it; my techniques will flood you with it. This is also known to intensify feelings; pleasure gets MORE, relaxation gets MORE, sensation gets MORE...

Get MORE.

We all think getting touched is pleasant, but is it? The "how" of touch, or, the way touch is done, can increase pleasure incredibly.

A sudden grab or a furtive, hurried groping hand is rarely pleasant to the one being touched. Slow, a slide, a purposeful pressure, even a warm and firmly held presence, will stimulate the body to release oxytocin in your body, but it is not instant.

Sure, 10 seconds seems like a short time, but to get the most pleasure stimulation in the brain, touch needs to be slow, purposeful, with good intent, and over 10 seconds long.

On my table, my touch will have your oxytocin levels rise and rise, and rise some more, and more, and this leads to the brain receiving more intense pleasure sensations: a "warm and fuzzy," comfortable feeling, a sense of wellness, a sense of right feeling--like you are in the right place at the right time, doing the right thing, for you.

Oxytocin can be a sort of "volume dial," turning up and amplifying brain activity related to the sensations you are already experiencing in a massage.

This is a good thing when the touch is done right. On my table, your body will be flooded with oxytocin, even with breathtaking pleasure.

"What is the right way to deal with your Masseur? How does it work, when someone shows up?"
Not everyone knows what to do. Some guys learn the hard way, and some guys never learn. 😉 Ask what is on your mind.

So, be you virginal at booking, or experienced, these are the best practices, from being in the business:

Timing: Be on time. Don't be more than 5 minutes early; don't be more than 3 minutes late. You pay for the time slot, and when it runs out, the session is over.

Presentation: Shower, please, right before you leave for your appointment. You will get a much better massage if we are not holding our breath. Clean everywhere. I mean EVERYWHERE. Even if you are not being touched there.

Payment: Discuss the options, make e-payments in advance, or upon arrival. If it is cash, have it ready when you step in; an envelope is a really nice touch. If you tip in advance, you do not have to say anything. Should you be thrilled with the Service, or just expected quality of care and attention, a Tip is always appreciated; you may give it before departing, or e-transfer later.

Behaviour: Follow the directions of your Provider; do not impede our work. Ask before acting.

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Hi,

I am near Ossington Stn, and can do Out to your dt (or close to it) hotel/condo/home, or In at my place.
Parking is on the street, or at the city lot a block away.
We can do an hour, 90 minutes, 2 hours, longer even!
Physical work, touch therapies, and even tantral work, can be yours!
Advance request works better than same day; last minute is unfortunately tough.
I look forward to working on your muscles, body; back and front, all over.
More reviews are available here:
https://rent.men/KoltinPlowman

Koltin