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With all these cities it feels like I’m on a tour, lol. Traveling can be difficult, especially in places you’ve never visited. It’s hard to gauge whether I’ll be able to make up the costs of traveling with appointments. It’s also nerve-wracking to anticipate the types of people I may meet—every city has a different energy with different types of people: some more kind, others more aggressive. With that being said, I still enjoy it and make sure that the sessions don’t get monotonous but still feel fresh. For most people it’s the first time they’ve ever experienced something like this, for others it’s a step in being vulnerable and open. I try not to take that for granted. If you see travelers in your area, take a chance and support us workers in this industry. It can be expensive and the support of the local community goes a long way in helping me plan future visits where I know I’ll be received well. I’m putting myself out there in a vulnerable way just as much as clients that trust me when they disrobe and climb on my table. I have a special place in my heart for my regulars that keep trusting me and building on that incredible exchange of energy. 🙏🏽🤓

I know, some of the reviews sound like they are reaching or AI-generated. I promise they aren’t. That doesn’t make the bouquet of praise easier to take in for me. I just try to do my best and focus on each client like they are my only client that I need to maintain and keep coming back. When I approach the session that way is when it becomes special, memorable, and meaningful. But it’s just a massage! Yes, but allowing someone to touch your body is vulnerable, personal, and intimate, regardless of the intention or anticipated happy ending (which, by the way, I highly suggest a happy beginning or middle to help fully relax by the end…or a couple of happy episodes-why not.) So while, for some, the session is a quick relaxation exercise, for others it’s an enormous and brave attempt at being present and vulnerable. I don’t take that for granted. I feel lucky to have met so many amazing and beautiful people and shared some special experiences. Looking forward to many more 🙏🤓

It’s interesting to see that each city has its own vibe and type of client. Every one good or bad for different reasons, some more pushy/aggressive, and others more shy/reserved. Some of my favorites so far have been Seattle, Tucson, Denver, Chicago, and Charlotte. Mind you, some of my favorite clients live in other cities, but generally these have been the best experiences overall so far. Each city has a unique lineup of characters, from serial flakes and entitled rich folk, to kind and uber-appreciative first-timers. You’d be surprised (or maybe not) to know how many of my clients have wives! Or how many are doctors, politicians, famous actors, school principals, surgeons, police officers, or government officials. I should write a book! lol. Of course part of the reason why I don’t post any face pics is because it’s important for me to keep my anonymity in order to protect and keep my clients private. So, no, I don’t touch and tell;) But there is a lot I could write about it. The underground world of sensual massage is an interesting bedside read for sure…