NERDwBigHands

I get asked often about what types of experiences I have with guys on the site. 99% of them have been amazing, some have become years-long friends. Every once in a while I’ll have an unfortunate encounter. A guy scheduled an appt through the website (one reason I prefer to get a text) which you only need a random email to make. The day of the appt he messaged me through another fake email, no phone number showed up. He showed up 15min late. I told him not to worry, although most times I’m unable to be so flexible but try when i can. He was young, fit, dark skinned, with an accent I couldn’t place but sounded Nigerian. He later told me he was from the Congo. He started with a long-winded story about a delayed payday or not getting money owed him (it was half hard to understand and half that I didn’t care because everything up to that point was fishy) and that he could only pay $100. I told him it was fine and we would just pro-rate the time. He took his clothes off, got on the table, and I started. He was fit, a perky bubble **** with a smooth skin. He was already excited and I could see it between his legs as he was laying face down getting bigger...2 be continued :)

With all these cities it feels like I’m on a tour, lol. Traveling can be difficult, especially in places you’ve never visited. It’s hard to gauge whether I’ll be able to make up the costs of traveling with appointments. It’s also nerve-wracking to anticipate the types of people I may meet—every city has a different energy with different types of people: some more kind, others more aggressive. With that being said, I still enjoy it and make sure that the sessions don’t get monotonous but still feel fresh. For most people it’s the first time they’ve ever experienced something like this, for others it’s a step in being vulnerable and open. I try not to take that for granted. If you see travelers in your area, take a chance and support us workers in this industry. It can be expensive and the support of the local community goes a long way in helping me plan future visits where I know I’ll be received well. I’m putting myself out there in a vulnerable way just as much as clients that trust me when they disrobe and climb on my table. I have a special place in my heart for my regulars that keep trusting me and building on that incredible exchange of energy. 🙏🏽🤓

I know, some of the reviews sound like they are reaching or AI-generated. I promise they aren’t. That doesn’t make the bouquet of praise easier to take in for me. I just try to do my best and focus on each client like they are my only client that I need to maintain and keep coming back. When I approach the session that way is when it becomes special, memorable, and meaningful. But it’s just a massage! Yes, but allowing someone to touch your body is vulnerable, personal, and intimate, regardless of the intention or anticipated happy ending (which, by the way, I highly suggest a happy beginning or middle to help fully relax by the end…or a couple of happy episodes-why not.) So while, for some, the session is a quick relaxation exercise, for others it’s an enormous and brave attempt at being present and vulnerable. I don’t take that for granted. I feel lucky to have met so many amazing and beautiful people and shared some special experiences. Looking forward to many more 🙏🤓