RelaxAndRenew's Massage Interview
Do you remember your first client ? Tell us something about that first day when you decided to be a Masseur!
My first client was a friend of a friend. I had given my friend a massage in a outdoors in a nearby natural area, and as I was doing the massage his friend came by. Next thing I know he's asking, "How do I book?". He ended up being my first pro client.
Some people say that being a Masseur is addictive. Would you miss your Masseur days ?
It's not addictive, but it definitely creates a connection I would miss if I never gave another massage. I genuinely enjoy helping men get in touch with their body, relax, and open themselves to the sort of intimacy that can happen during a massage. Different men are comfortable with different things, but it's always positive energy for myself and the client.
Do you consider yourself a successful Masseur?
Ever since the first time a friend raved about the massages I gave as a hobbyist I considered myself successful!
Tell us a little about yourself, if you were to pick something what would you like your clients to absolutely know about you?
I have been in the field of education most of my life, so taking care of people comes naturally. People usually find me very approachable and sensitive, so I feel that makes me a natural for massage. I also have very strong hands and arms, so if a client wants deeper work I am well-prepared. Finally, I want clients to know that the work I do is personal and confidential.
How would you like someone that contacts you for a massage to feel when they leave?
I hope they feel totally relaxed, but also stimulated to be present with their "physicallity" (if that's a word). It's a sort of groundedness that is based in loving yourself as you are and being able to enjoy the sensations you feel.
What are your hobbies, what do you like to do in your spare time?
I am an avid gardener and grower of African Violets; I love anything science fiction (movie or book) and I love to cook. I especially love baking and make sourdough bread from scratch regularly.
Why did you become a Masseur?
I love it, and I believe it truly helps others.
What advice would you give to someone who wants to be a Masseur?
I would say go for it, and be on the lookout for what makes you unique in the field!
What distinguishes you from all the other Masseurs?
Most masseurs I have encountered are very much like me. I guess one way I distinguish myself is the way I use body weight during certain times in the massage to make gravity work for me.
How long have you been a Masseur and how long do think you'd like to continue?
I have just started, and hope to continue for at least 10 years.
How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or are you more of a homebody?
I love to travel and go to Palm Springs, CA regularly. I also love traveling abroad, especially to Spain.
Is extensive training necessary for a Masseur in order to be successful?
I believe that training is necessary to improve - but the initial requirements to me are being able to sense the tension in muscle, have a basic knowledge of the skeletal and muscular systems (and how they work together), and a desire to help people.
How do you like clients to feel about the experience when they leave?
Relaxed, grounded and at peace.