RelaxwithXLDad's Personal Masseur Interview

Last Updated: Nov 26, 2023

- As much as I can read your body language ... I am not a mentalist. I always like to know what you want and get some feedback !

- I want them to leave satisfied, rested, full of energy and I love when they say to me: "Now I'm ready for a nap"

- A lot of hiking and camping in the wild is my retreat !

- In 1993, I was a part of a Rugby team and I broke my tailbone, I couldn't play anymore ... so I became the team's masseur. I studied then got addicted, and massaging all those big sexy rugby guys was so much fun !

- Start but getting a lot of massages yourself to see what feels really good.

Don't be afraid to ask for feedback ! Be sincere, be yourself and don't see it as just a job, it's more than this because the masseur shares a lot with his clients !

- I think we all have our specialty and also different personality.

I do like people, I show a lot of empathy and I always try to put myself in my client's shoes to know what he wants / needs (And sometimes doesn't dare to ask !)

- I've started to do massages in 1993, I think I'll go on as long as my body allows it !

- I travel all the time !

- The training is important, but the empathy, feedback and touch is important.

You can have the technique, if you don't put all your heart in what you are doing, you miss the magic of a good massage !

- Happy, satisfied, fully relaxed, I enjoy when I leave and I see the person is about to fall asleep after an intense session of relaxation !

- I think so, my clients become regular, and friends, I guess it's a sign !

- A lot, the intimacy between a masseur and his client is very unique !
We are there to make sure he's satisfied, and also listen to his body language / feedback to make sure to adapt the technique. This is something very rewarding for the masseur, seeing the client is fully relaxed and reactive.

- I do remember, he was a straight guy who absolutely wanted to be touched by another guy, but didn't want to tell her girlfriend. He was so shy and at the same time excited, we had a great session, and he left very happy and satisfied he could trust me to put my hands on him.