Richardhjessup's Massage Interview
Do you remember your first client ? Tell us something about that first day when you decided to be a Masseur!
That first client was an amazing gift ~ I was so nervous (I initially only did OUT calls), but he was sensitive to that, and I could tell that he ‘got’ my work right away. We ended up having the most powerful session, and I knew then that I had found a calling!
Some people say that being a Masseur is addictive. Would you miss your Masseur days ?
Most definitely ~ there is something unique and amazing about being able to meet, listen to, and help people in their daily lives, and in living a ‘healthier’ life.
Do you consider yourself a successful Masseur?
Successful in the fact that I get very positive feedback, and people tell me that my work makes a difference in their lives. That is everything to me!
Tell us a little about yourself, if you were to pick something what would you like your clients to absolutely know about you?
I am a very intuitive person, and pick up on people’s energy, intentions, etc. I think having that ability really helps me as a masseur. I feel that I can go to a deeper place with someone very quickly, if I sense that they are genuine in who they are…
How would you like someone that contacts you for a massage to feel when they leave?
I hope that they feel seen, heard, cared for, and that their day has been enhanced by the experience!
What are your hobbies, what do you like to do in your spare time?
I love to hike, swim, anything that gets me outside and active. If I can do any of those things naked I am that much happier!
Why did you become a Masseur?
Initially I trained so that I could have a ‘second’ career, to help support my work in theatre and film. But the massage became much more than that to me, and is now what I primarily focus on and want to continue doing for as long as I am able…
What advice would you give to someone who wants to be a Masseur?
I would say, first and foremost, find good training! There are too many people out there who are advertising as a pro, but do not have the skills to back that up. You also need to be an empathetic person, one who is willing/able to listen, and to do what it takes to make someone feel better
What distinguishes you from all the other Masseurs?
I think my technique is unusual: I employ Zen Shiatsu, which is very therapeutic but also requires working with, and helping to shift someone’s energy. I begin my sessions with an undressing ritual, which helps us to tune into each other, and makes a strong start to making the massage connection!
How long have you been a Masseur and how long do think you'd like to continue?
I first trained in 1985, so have been doing massage for almost 30 years! I am so grateful that I took the leap all of those years ago…
How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or are you more of a homebody?
I travel as much as is possible ~ I am still involved in the live theatre and dance worlds, so still travel to work on shows and I produce a dance festival in Seattle every fall.
Is extensive training necessary for a Masseur in order to be successful?
I believe that training, like in dance, is the most important element to being successful. You have to have the sensitivity and empathy, also, but without good training I think that one falls short ~
How do you like clients to feel about the experience when they leave?
I like my clients to feel that they have just experienced something that is unique, tailored to them, and has been transformative in some way.