RobertBlack's Massage Interview
What are your hobbies, what do you like to do in your spare time?
I host a podcast and YouTube series for men, I maintain two educational websites, I donate time as an instructional designer to a local LGBTQ+ organization (developing computer based training), and I do the "usual" stuff, like working out, cooking, playing with my two rescue pups, and watching movies with my husband of almost 20 years.
How do you like clients to feel about the experience when they leave?
I want clients to feel the way they hoped they'd feel, and that I exceeded their expectations. I really do view a session as a client's time for self care. That's not to be taken lightly. I do everything possible to make sure they feel cared for.
Some people say that being a Masseur is addictive. Would you miss your Masseur days ?
I did miss my masseur days! That's why I'm back in the biz, at least part time. The past 10 years I've been in a very stressful "day job." When I help someone else let go of stress and feel great, I am rewarded with the same outcome.
Is extensive training necessary for a Masseur in order to be successful?
I think every masseur needs to have at least some basic knowledge to keep the client safe, as well as himself. I have had some great massages from men who are self taught or were trained by a knowledgeable colleague. Formal, or advanced training can certainly widen your skill set, but being a great masseur is also an art.
Why did you become a Masseur?
A masseur friend of mine suggested it might be a good career for me, and he was right. Wanting to make other people feel good is just part of my DNA.
Do you consider yourself a successful Masseur?
I've been a masseur, on and off, for almost two decades. I still have original clients seeking me out. That makes me feel successful.
What advice would you give to someone who wants to be a Masseur?
Get some formal basic training that includes body mechanics, to protect yourself and the client. Never work without a table. Never drizzle oil directly on a client. Touch with intention. Talk less, listen more. Find out what each client wants and needs; don't use a cookie cutter.
Tell us a little about yourself, if you were to pick something what would you like your clients to absolutely know about you?
I know some clients worry that a masseur will not want to work on them because of their size or body hair. I truly enjoy working on "thicc" men and hairy men.
What distinguishes you from all the other Masseurs?
This is not my only business, so I schedule a maximum of one client (or couple) per day. Sessions are a self care experience for me, as much as they are for a client. Although clients may find sessions to be spiritual in some way, that is not my intent. I am not a sacred intimate, spiritual healer, energy worker, or body electric/tantra practitioner.