SeanXavier's Massage Interview
Tell us a little about yourself, if you were to pick something what would you like your clients to absolutely know about you?
I'm a workaholic. With school, freelancing, furniture making, shooting porn, and of course spending time with great men, I'm always on the move. It's a rare day when I'm on my own just vegging out.
This is a little embarrassing, but I can't ride a bike. Sure, I can sit on the seat, and even balance for a few feet or so, but making turns, coming to a complete stop, avoiding obstacles, riding down (or up for that matter) hills...it's not going to happen.
What are your hobbies, what do you like to do in your spare time?
I'm a scholar at heart, and curious by nature. Don't be surprised if our conversation wanders into epistemological differences between schools of thought! I enjoy deep conversation about emotions, psychology, and society; I like to get to know the guy on the table, if he's up for conversation. Likewise, I'm an open book - ask me anything, and I won't shy away from talking about it. Life is too short for only surface level interactions.
Some people say that being a Masseur is addictive. Would you miss your Masseur days ?
Good physical touch is addictive. I enjoy giving it as much as I do receiving it. It's satisfying to work with your hands, and at the end of the day, to know that you've given someone a great experience.
How would you like someone that contacts you for a massage to feel when they leave?
Both relaxed and invigorated. The simultaneous feeling that their stresses have dissolved with a resolve to go and conquer the day.
Is extensive training necessary for a Masseur in order to be successful?
Hands-on training is definitely necessary. I've heard from many clients that I seem to have a special, intuitive, gift to find those spots that need the most work. That insight, I believe, comes from hands against flesh day-in-day-out work to discover how to touch in a way that makes a person feel truly satisfied. Likewise, it requires being on the table yourself. I take the opportunity to get a massage whenever offered, because I can take in new techniques to apply to the future men on my table.
Do you consider yourself a successful Masseur?
Absolutely. I feel honored to have a steady line of repeat business across the country and internationally. It's nice to see familiar faces when outside of my home city; it's nicer to know they've been waiting excitedly for my return.
Why did you become a Masseur?
The mutual pleasure of touching and being touched.