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Namaste Everyone & Happy Wednesday!

Today was my 16th day of Covid and I finally tested negative. This was a brutal 3rd round and I’m healing residual symptoms, so I’ll be reopening soon! When I re-open I’ll have some good discounts to gift you with for your patience for solo sessions. Four-hand opportunities with myself and Mercury will be available, however he will be away for a few weeks, so if you want those sessions, don’t wait.

Please take good care of yourselves during this winter season. There are so many I know who aren’t feeling their best.

Here are some tips to keeping healthy during the surge, or if you need, to help you heal.

1. Rest - We all have different ways of resting. Find ways to rest your physical body, as well as rest your mind and soul.

2. Nutrients - I’m not a doctor, but I find immunity shots, tea, green juices, root veggies, and supplements to be extra helpful at this time of year.

3. Spiritual Healing - Meditation, prayer, and various other spiritual tools and methods ground and center me mentally, emotionally & spiritually.

4. Massages - Get stretched & have your energy moved around as your muscles heal.

5. Sleep - Period.

Gratitude,

J

Namaste Everyone & Happy New Year!

It’s been ages since I’ve posted, considering I’m typically a daily blogger. Covid is the reason why. It turns out I got COVID while on the trip and the last few days were touch and go. I found out I was positive once I returned back to NY and my health quickly got much worse. I have mostly been sleeping and caring for myself, and fur children. Today is day 13 and while I’m over the worst of it and I am improving, I’m not quite ready to open yet. I would love to re-open later in the week at the latest. I have been taking it day-by-day.

Covid didn’t disappear and it’s certainly not the only virus going around right now. It’s important to take care of yourself by giving yourself the self-care you need. Eat nutrient dense foods, cook more than going out, wear attire which is weather appropriate, take good care to tend to basic hygiene, take whatever actions your doctors prescribe, while also doing your research to make the best choices for you.

The key to not getting sick is to modulate your stress because it opens you up to these things. Massages are great way to take care of yourself. Reach out to hear about services & I’ll see you soon!

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy New Year!

Today was my last day in Santa Fe - for now. I’ve had a wild journey this trip and it seems that Santa Fe always has a way of shaking things up. There’s always a transformation. I had a ton of wonderful times with my family and other times with my family.😅 My last day was spent pampered and loved, which is about the best way to spend it! I’m ready to get home to NY and get settled into the New Year!

This year I’m planning on gaining new knowledge and training to improve my skills even further to provide the best possible experiences. As always, the promise is unforgettable. I desire to provide the type of service you desire and even more, what you need. Everything is customized to you, ensuring deeper healing, increased pleasure, and a bliss extending beyond the session itself.

Of course, four-hand will still be available with myself and @MercuryRising. More traveling is on the table this year, so wherever you are, let us know if you’d like us to travel to you! In-calls and our-calls will still be welcomed.

I’ll be open for service in NY starting January 4th. Reach out and ask about the New Years Specials!

With Gratitude,

James Source

Namaste Everyone and Happy New Years Eve!

It's wild how fast this trip has gone by. The last few days of my trip will be dedicated to family, so today and tomorrow (Jan 1st) are the last opportunities you'll have to book an out-call session with me. Remember, there are New Years Eve Specials with the Masseur's Choice being $50 off and $100 off for Overnights! If you're looking to end your year with less stress and more pleasure, please reach out and I'll be happy to come to you or meet at another location.

2024 was a challenging year for everyone I know. There's been a lot going on within the world and in our own little worlds we occupy within our minds, as well as our hearts. Many lost jobs and felt the loss of people who left this plane. Many dealt with serious health journey's or has stress with relationships. It's been a lot and you're allowed to feel tired or even exhausted. You're allowed to be ready to move forward and release 2024 as another year you were grateful to be alive, and take all those lessons with you.

There were also a lot of wonderful moments of 2024, which I will take into 2025. I'm excited to serve powerfully another year and hope to do more traveling.

J

Namaste Everyone & Happy (early) Moonday or late Sunday, depending on how you look at it!

It's a magical black new moon tonight, which is a rarer occurrence where there are two new moons in a month. The sky in Santa Fe tonight was INCREDIBLE. I enjoyed it from the hot tub and got lots of pictures while making some wonderful memories, after an amazing dinner (as always) at Restaurant Martin. If you haven't been there, I highly recommend it. I have been there a number of times over the years and their menu is seasonal.

Anyway, I have 3 more days left of availability on this trip - the 30th and 31st of December, and 1st of January. If you desire an out-call to a hotel or to your location within Santa Fe through to ABQ, reach out! I'm having a New Years Special where the Masseur's Choice is $450 instead of $500 for the remainder of the year. There is also a special price of $1400 for the overnight sessions (potentially more depending on location circumstances).

If you're looking for a luxurious way to finish out 2024, I'm here to serve you and provide you with the best experience to make the best start of 2025. Let me ease your worries, rid of your pains & bring pleasure.

James

Namaste Everyone & Happy Holidays!

Can you believe it's almost 2025? I feel like most of us are really ready to move forward into a new chapter and energy. I'm sorry have dropped the blog for a week. I've been really immersed in the family time and vacation aspect of this trip.

I've ate at some wonderful restaurants, cooked a ton of food across multiple holidays, made plenty of fires in the fire place, soaked in the hot tub, and all-around been present with what's within me, as well as in front of me. I do have some more family excitement before I leave January 3rd, however I ill have some availability from now through January 1st (this includes the 1st).

With a few days left to provide services to clients, I thought I would tap back in and share that I will be having a special for the remainder of the trip. The discount will be $50 off of OUT-CALL Masseur's Choice Sessions and $100 off of overnight OUT-CALL sessions. There will still be a travel fee included depending on your location. As a loving reminder, sessions must be 2 hours or longer, which does fit with the Masseur's Choice session, which is very luxurious. I am prepared to end your year with magic.

James Source

Namaste Everyone and Happy Winter Solstice!

It's such a powerful and exciting time in so many ways right now. While the holiday's are stressful for many and there are larger stressors in the world at large, there are also many curiosities and each moment has so much love to be felt. My first full day was full of all these things and more.

If you're been reading my posts leading to this one, you already know that I'm in Santa Fe through just past the New Year and I am creating availability for out-calls to clients. While certain clients prefer to travel out, there's really so much value in having me come to your location, whether it be your home, an AirBNB, or a hotel.

I'm prepped with a brand new lotion warmer, my favorite tuning fork and singing bowl, several essential oils, acupressure tools, my magical hands, and a bit more. ;) If you have a table, I'm happy to provide services on that, however a bed can be a wonderful option in most cases. Some prefer the floor and I'm flexible in doing so.

Ask me about services and mention "SantaFe" as a code for a special discount when you book. Out-calls are a 2-hour minimum and it's well worth it to have a luxurious experience.

James

Namaste Everyone & Happy Friday!

I’m thrilled to say I’ve safely arrived in Santa Fe and I’m already immersed in the pleasures of this special place. I’ve had some spiritual time, hot tub time, stargazing time, and food time. It’s wonderful to be back after two years.

While I’m here, I will largely be able to provide service to those in Santa Fe and ABQ who are interested in out-calls, however if I get enough in-call requests I’ll get a hotel to take those clients. Depending on distance, there will be travel fees or other arrangements to make it happen. I do not have a massage table with me, however I otherwise brought some tools and other fun things to provide the same excellent care I’m known for in NY and LA. I am here solo, so four-hand will not be an option. Out-calls must me a 2-hour minimum and longer sessions which are local will be prioritized.

My availability is on and off given I’m also vacationing on this trip, so don’t hesitate to reach out. You will definitely want to reach out and not wait before you miss me!

I’m eager to bring The Masseur’s Choice experience to New Mexico and help you to heal, as well as relax at the end of what may have been a wild year.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Holidays!

It’s been a wild journey so far and I’m grateful to say I’m at the airport waiting to board my first of two flights. Here’s a tip - Make sure your flight is the flight you’re told was booked for you to avoid waking to panic and rushing out the door in 10 minutes. 😅

I am super ready to sleep on the first flight, which is why I slept so little. Any others find it easier to fly when sleeping? ✈️

Anyway, I’ve decided that LaGuardia is the best airport I’ve been to so far and it definitely wasn’t always the case. I guess it’s been a long time since I’ve been here or to this terminal at a minimum because it’s totally redone with tons of shopping and restaurants, a new UAP looking water feature, which was epic, and even a meditation room. I am part of the sunflower program and was respected when advocating for myself to go priority. Not to mention the discount we got for a heavy bag. Thank you to the traveling Gods! This has been a lot more hectic than I anticipated and these things made it easier. Typically, it’s tough for me to find snacks because of my allergies, but this wasn’t the case here.

If you’re in Santa Fe or ABQ, reach out!

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Wednesday!

It's so wild that tonight is my last night in NY for 2024! If you're wanting a last minute session solo or with myself and @MercuryRising, don't hesitate to reach out! There's likely time for only one more session because I am packing things-up.

I'm beyond excited to get to New Mexico and if you're in Santa Fe or the surrounding areas, please reach out to learn more about services. I'll be available the 20th - Jan 1st (on and off). This is a personal and professional trip, so booking in advance is definitely helpful. I will be able to do out-call sessions with a travel fee or you're welcome to send a car for me. The minimum session for out-call is 2 hours or more depending on how far away you are. If I get enough in-call interest, I will get a hotel room. I'm going to be bringing some fun things to make sessions special, even though I won't likely have a massage table.

Santa Fe has a very special place in my heart. The energies there are so wonderful and I'm eager to serve powerfully within those energetics to bring about unforgettable experiences. The Reiki flow is surely to flow stronger through the magic of the holiday season.

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Tuesday!

I've had my schedule quite full with tasks to tie up all the loose ends I can before leaving for Santa Fe on Thursday. I'm really grateful to have organized myself in a way which grants me the grace needed to ebb and flow within my hibernation energy, which is setting in.

As I'm preparing to be a snow bunny for a few weeks in New Mexico, I'm reminded of this really cute moment in one of the Disney fairy movies where the animals are in line to cross the boarder into winter for the season, and one of the animals is already falling asleep and being pushed by the fairy to keep going. It feels a little bit like that right now.

I can assure you, I am very much capable and excited to provide one or two more magical experiences for clients in New York before I leave. Both solo and four-hand with myself and @MercuryRising are available. Whether you're looking for in-call here in Brooklyn or out-call to the city or Jersey, reach out to book your session now, or miss out until 2025.

I'm eager to set-up and serve clients in Santa Fe and planning to offer some sweet discounts to those who are the perfect fit. Santa isn't the only one giving gifts.

James

Namaste Everyone & Happy Sunday/Full Moon!

Tonights Full Moon is in Gemini, which makes this a really great day for discussing the feeling of indecisiveness. This is not to say that Gemini's are ALWAYS indecisive. It's something many of them have to heal because "The Twins" are an expression of polarity, as well as opportunity. With each opportunity, there is a decision to be made.

If you're an indecisive person, this is the night to set the intention to release what's blocking you from being indecisive and allow yourself to make an empowered decision. Another way to look at is to allow the universe to make the decision for you. Being indecisive is something that can truly harm a person by keeping them back from what they desire, or even bringing about an unwanted experience.

Feeling indecisive typically frustrates both the person and the people close to that person. When you don't make a decision, that impacts others and the decisions they have to make. When feeling indecisive, there's a part of you that doesn't trust yourself and others. It's a lack of feeling safe.

Therapeutic sessions with me are a great way to release this stuck energy with the help of Reiki too.

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Saturday!

The energy seems to be very emotional and charging-up right now. With the wind down of the year and a mix of planets going retrograde and others such as Mercury, which tomorrow will go direct at the Gemini full moon, the energy is palpable.

Today a friend of mine spoke about how they are "recapping this year", which of course breeds nostalgia, as we have often spoken of on this blog. There's another side to the loneliness, nostalgia, and introspection and that's yearning. Of course, there are many emotions felt at this time of year and yearning is one that is filled with deep passion. It's a full on experience.

Yearning is about desiring something to the degree that you may even go to the extreme. Whether you put in ALL your efforts or some other version of that, it feels unbearable to have to wait to have or become. It comes from a space of loss and desiring everything yesterday. Yearning is formed within attachments and is not always the most balanced, or healthy experience.

It's wonderful to desire and to answer to your desires, however getting lost in them in a lack mindset, not an abundant mindset. Everything is happening for you.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Holidays to you!

It's wild that I'll be in Santa Fe, New Mexico a week from today. I'm SUPER excited! If you're in Santa Fe and the surrounding areas, reach out to talk about sessions to fill your holidays with spirit, pleasure, healing, and joy! I have a very good idea of my schedule of availability so far and you'll want to connect sooner than later to make sure you get a session in your busy festive schedule. I'll have availability on and off through Jan 1st.

If you have been here before, you may have noticed the new photos I've added. You're welcome. ;) If you're new, enjoy the holiday photos showing I'm ready to ride your sleigh. ;)

As I'll be leaving soon, I want to give an extra special gift to those who choose to celebrate the holidays with a solo session or also four-hand sessions with myself and Mercury. If you're in NY, IN-CALLS will be $25 off of solo sessions and $50 off of four-hand sessions. There will not be a discount for out-call sessions here in NY. Special discounts for couples, ask about them!

For those in Santa Fe, I'll be offering discounts on overnight sessions & maybe more! Reach out if you're interested.

With Gratitude,

J

Namaste Everyone & Happy Thursday!

As I'm typing this, I'm shedding a tear over one of the sweetest and most sentimental seasons of Queer Eye. Yes, I am recommending this new season, however that's not what this post is about. As a very sentimental personal, I really appreciate the stories from this season.

Feeling sentimental is a very deep rooted emotion that's often put in the category of emotional. It's complex in that one can feel sentimental over something sad, something nurturing, and something nostalgic. Typically, I feel sentimental is associate most with feeling nostalgic.

Feeling sentimental can be triggered by an object, a shared memory, an experience, and even a person. It's often a feeling we want more of. When we feel sentimental, we can have a hard time letting go, especially when it's the sad kind, attached to grief.

Feeling sentimental is a very high EQ emotion, which means there's intelligence involved in getting yourself to this place. You may not realize it because it's often so fast and automatic. We store these feelings in our body, which is why it's important to massage the body, as well as to move the energy around.

Reach out to be soothed.

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Wednesday!

The holiday season can feel like a really isolating time for many in the community. Some don't feel they have a home to go to. Some are neurodivergent, dysphoric, or dysmorphic and dissociate to varying degrees. Some have painful memories during this time, such as a partner or parent leaving them or this Earth all together and shut down, as well as shut in. Some are introverted and as a result feel isolated and lonely. There are more - I think you get it, especially since you may have experienced this yourself.

The truth is, we've been isolating within humanity WAY before the pandemic. While having alone time is super important, in varying degrees for different people, isolation is something that doesn't feel empowering or good.

For those who feel supported and have loved ones around them during this holiday season, that's truly wonderful and I'm celebrating you! I'm very grateful to have that myself this year AND even within those spaces we can feel isolated by feeling dismissed for living our authentic selves.

If you're feeling isolated, please reach out for a session. It would be an honor to provide you the intimacy you deserve.

J

Namaste Everyone & Happy Tuesday!

I cannot resist any longer. I'm in season three of this series, "For The Love of DILFS" and I cannot stop talking about it. I haven't had this many layers of feelings about a show in awhile. It's a complicated game.

For those who don't read my blog already, know that typically my blogs are focused on bringing valuable insights into my world, healing, spirituality, emotions, and my services. I don't tend to make it about fluff. There's more to this than fluff.

For those who aren't aware of the show, it's on OUT TV and is hosted by Stormy Daniels. Season 3 is currently streaming and released weekly. The show is a dating game where Daddies and Himbos compete for love, and a small $10,000 towards their relationship. While the typical dating show drama can be entertaining and the observation of humanity, illuminating, this show doesn't make the community look cute.

People aren't nice to each other, let alone respectful much of the time. The games and context doesn't set them up for that. People are lying and disloyal. It's very monogamy focused, which is fine, however does that even represent the community fully? I'm still watching. Reflecting.

J.

Namaste Everyone & Happy Moonday!

Today has been a very moon-day mood and therefore, lots of interesting happenings. I have had many conversations and all very inspiring. One of the themes central to all of them was of heroism from the perspective of what some call "savior complex" or "the fixer archetype". There are many different ways of saying that someone has a pattern of jumping in to rescue someone who may not need rescuing. Sometimes, this can even make things much worse. Let's break it down.

Heroism is authenticated by providing a service of bravery and unconditional love in major support to someone they care about or even more so, someone they don't know. The way to quantify this is different person to person and depending on circumstances, however there tends to be a theme of life or death experiences. Or at minimum, something that really changed someones life for the better. Often times magnified when impacting many people at once.

Feeling heroic comes from the ego & while the ego isn't bad, jumping in without consent doesn't tend to be received well. Empower others to rescue themselves and ask before jumping in. Focus on fixing yourself. Don't take others lessons.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Sunday!

There's an uncomfortable emotion humans may experience quite a bit depending on how they live their lives, and a lot of this comes up during the holidays as we lead into the completion of another calendar year.

Feeling guilty sucks and is not always warranted. Feeling guilty is very much connected to shame, which we have discussed before, as well as grief and it's often centered around truth. Feeling guilty means you're regretting or wishful to an action or behavior you did or didn't take. Sometimes it feels like feeling guilty is a way to fix a scenario because others harmed or impacted may feel better from you feeling guilty. While their ego sometimes might feel that way, once they regulate, they will see things differently.

Feeling guilty doesn't help fix anything. What does is forgiveness, apologies, honesty, vulnerability, and knew inspired actions within integrity with what you say will change.

Sometimes we can feel guilty for eating or saying "the wrong thing". Humans can be super hard on one another, especially within the self.

Release it all and allow yourself to be perfectly imperfect. Learn and choose differently.

I forgive.

J

Namaste Everyone & Happy Saturday!

How was the rest of your week? Mine was full and exciting! There's a lot going on as I prepare for this trip to New Mexico. I'm really excited to be able to make this personal trip into a personal and professional trip. This means it's my time availability will be flexible, while also being specific. It's in both our best interests for us to get sessions book in advance, as much as possible, that said, you can book sessions with me once I'm there.

My availability will begin as early as Dec. 20th and complete by January 1st.

I'm available:
Dec. 20th
Dec. 21st 4pm on
Dec. 22nd
Dec. 23rd before 3 pm, 8 pm on
Dec. 24th before 3 pm, 11 pm on
Dec. 27th before 5 pm, 11 pm on
Dec. 28th
Dec. 29th before 6 pm, After 11 pm
Dec. 30th
Dec. 31st

Reminder that I'll be able to do out-calls much easier than in-calls. If I get enough in-call requests, I will get a hotel or another location for a brief window to fulfill for those sessions. Out-calls will be easier and will include a travel fee necessary as I don't have my own vehicle when I'm there. You're welcome to send me a car or get me yourself to avoid an added fee. Multiple sessions for discounts.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Thursday!

As we see a path clearing to the end of 2024, most of us are (or will be) promptly reflecting on our 2024. It's a time to see both the successes and room for improvement. Some may still have regrets and feel disappointed in themselves, in others, and in the universe.

When I think of feeling disappointed, the first thing that comes to mind is my parents. Do you resonate? I don't know of many who haven't spent a significant part of their life answering to their parents desires and wishes in order to gain their approval, and love. When we disappoint our parents, it can feel devastating, even into adulthood because that childhood wounding is so deep.

Disappointment actually starts most importantly within ourselves. The expectations people place on us are one thing, however what we internalize and place on ourselves is even more impactful. It can create a freeze and lots of negative self-talk inside.

While I aim to please with my clients, I can trust they won't be disappointed because I'm putting my all into that session. I've checked-in with the questions necessary to serve powerfully and spent time, as well as energy on myself first.

James

Namaste Everyone & Happy Wednesday!

When I go to Santa Fe, New Mexico later this month (Dec. 20th - Jan 2. availability on and off - reach out!), I will not be able to host in-call at my location, which means I will be leaning into out-call sessions, unless I get enough interest for in-call, in which case I may get a hotel briefly to accommodate.

It's been awhile since I've discussed out-calls, so let's dive in, especially if you're knew to receiving these types of massages.

What's an out-call? An out-call session is when a Masseur travels to the clients location.

While there may be some limitations as to what a Masseur can bring to an out-call depending on their circumstances of travel and willingness, as well as an increased cost due to said travel, there are major benefits for the client.

The perks of an out-call are often related to the travel aspect. You don't have to travel. When you're tired or well rested afterwards, you can remain in your space where you feel safe an comfortable to extend your bliss. There's no fuss over travel costs for you, no time lost & you can fit it into your schedule easier. Of course, you'll have the memories too.

Reach out for an out-call.
J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Tuesday!

I don't know about you, but today is hitting differently. I feel the new energies and I can honestly say that I feel more grounded, secure, clear, peaceful, and present than I ever have. It used to be pure chaos internally and therefore, externally, and then I had this huge wave of integration during therapy today. I'm really proud of myself and celebrating big time! Things are feeling really good in terms of where they are going and I'm super excited about how this calendar year will complete and how 2025 is filled with incredible potential. I have reclaimed my power and I am claiming all the opportunities for joy, health, balance, and abundance for 2025.

The year is not over - don't give-up! Many get so exhausted by this point it feels like the year is dragging on and there's no escape. When the clock strikes midnight for January 1st, your life will not fall apart and even if it feels overwhelming, you WILL be stronger and everything is happening for you.

If you're looking to have a session with myself or with both of us for four-hand, you'll want to book those sessions before the 18th of December if you're in NY or coming here.

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Moonday!

Yesterday the new moon in Sagittarius entered into our sky and brought a dedicated energy into the mix, clashing with the challenges of Mercury in retrograde. There's so much to learn here. On Friday, Mars will go retrograde after two years and honestly, we're all catching-up to all the change. This may be an overwhelming or stimulating time for you, so keep breathing and hang-on! 2025 is looking super promising as the Earth with shift into a 9 year of completion and the Snake energy, as well.

When quick changes, as well as big changes happen, I know that I become rather tender. I also desire a lot of tenderness. These holiday seasons bring-up many emotions and some extra TLC can go a long way. If you're feeling tender, know I resonate with what you're feeling and have great capacity to provide the tenderness you're needing.

There are many ways to feel tender in ones heart, as well as many causes. I encourage you to lean into the love languages to know how express tenderness to those who are in a tender moment. Make sure you match the love language with the person so your intentions are well-received.

Reach out for a tender touch.

James