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Namaste Everyone and Happy Tuesday!

Yesterday was a pretty heavy energy. I was too, feeling a bit lethargic and not my best. Today is feeling better and though there are still some curves, there is also a divine flow. Certain things are coming together because clarity is setting in. This is really helpful right now and is sparking a lot of joy because I feel more stable among all the changes, and I'm spending time focusing on various projects that bring me joy.

Joy is an AWESOME emotion that everyone wants to feel - everyone. It's not discussed as primal, however I do believe that joy is a primal emotion. So often we are fighting for our joy and pleasure, or experiencing challenges in order to experience the joy. It's an emotion that is chased and well coveted.

I experience deep joy when I'm serving my clients powerfully. I experience joy because they are experiencing joy, and I humbly get to be a co-creator in that experience. Many of my clients don't feel joy very often and come to me to have the joy instilled into their lives. You are worthy of joy and I would be honored to bring it to you. Remember, the capacity to feel joy is inside you. No one can take your joy away.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Monday!

This moon-day happens to be a power day for my Sag moon. I'm very emotionally oriented professionally and very activated both in my heart, as well as my crown. This makes for a really great day to provide my services because I'm really tapped in.

Sometimes tapping in and being connected means feeling "a little out of it" or even very tired. Many may find that some of their greatest ideas and clarity come while in this state. I too have experienced this plenty of times. A version of this that doesn't feel comfortable is lethargic. While there is a medical definition for lethargy, feeling lethargic from an emotional perspective means to feel tired, out of it, and even a bit lazy. It's often those days where you feel "off".

My clients who are experiencing lethargy will receive powerful support in our sessions together. Especially when applying Reiki, crystal healing, and sound healing to the mix. When you're feeling lethargic, there's something out of balance and I can target where that's coming from, as well as help to bring it into harmony.

Would you like to feel more present and effective tomorrow? Book a Masseur's Choice session today!

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Sunday!

We're going to get pretty heavy in this post because it's time for us to discuss the emotion, resentment. Resentment is a less than fun emotion for both the person experiencing it and also the ones who are being resented.

Resentment is regret covered with anger and sometimes even depression, all the way to rage. It comes from the moment we blame someone and/or something for our unhappiness.

We can resent someone for many reasons, which include harm we feel that they caused in some way, jealousy of someone else, and more.

When we feel resentment, it's held in the body, often in the crown, heart, solar plexus, and root chakras. It can also be held in the sacral, especially if connected to erotic traumas or something that's happened with a creative collaborator.

When we resent a situation, it's really no different. It can give a "mad at the world" kind of feeling. There's nothing wrong or right about feeling resentment, so much as it's value really stays with the educational component. This isn't an emotion humans enjoy experiencing.

If you're feeling resentment, reach out for a session and we will clear it with Reiki and other modalities.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Saturday!

I'm excited to report that my flights to Santa Fe, NM for December are booked! I will be able to take clients on and off from Dec. 20th through Jan. 2nd. I will be able to book much easier for out-calls, however if I get enough in-call requests I will get a hotel for some of the time. This is now going to be a solo trip, unfortunately all of the four-hand requests so far will need to wait a bit longer. I'll be happy to take you solo!

It has been about 2 years since I was last in Santa Fe or New Mexico in general. I have a very deep connection and love for Santa Fe. The winter months are just as magical and unique from all of the others. The mountain views are very special within the bounds of the gorgeous, and wild desert. There's a deeply spiritual connection there and I know I'll be serving powerfully.

If you're hesitant about which session to choose from or if I'm the right fit for you, reach out to book a video experience and you'll get a really good sense of what I'm about.

See you soon!

With Gratitude,

James Source

Namaste Everyone & Happy Friday,

We have touched upon loneliness in a number of posts, so it's important that we discuss feeling disconnected, which is at the core of feeling lonely.

Most feel disconnected at one point or another. You can feel disconnected alone or you can feel disconnected 1:1, or even in a big group of people. There's a lot of layers and reasons why you might feel disconnected, and none of them are more or less valid than the other.

To feel disconnected is to feel a lack of intimacy with yourself and or others. It means to feel out of touch, othered, or even a little spacey. What's clearer than all the ways to feel disconnected is that until we feel connected to ourself, we cannot feel connected to others. Until we feel connected, we will feel some form of loneliness.

Sometimes feeling disconnected can come out of nowhere and the reason behind it isn't clear. Other times, there's a clear trigger which has you feeling in your own little world. Being in your own world is fine, unless you feel trapped there.

Many of my clients come to me for intimacy and support in reconnecting to themselves and others. If you're feeling disconnected, reach out!

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Thursday!

In just over a month Mercury is going retrograde and yet this very early shadow period, the length that is disagreed upon, is already impactful. Six planets in retrograde, I think, and it's stirring-up the pot. We're now in Scorpio, which is an energy of mystery, eroticism and pleasure, psychic abilities, passion, and the shadows. It's a big time for releasing a lot of emotions, behaviors, and narratives coming to the surface. When we release, we create space for the new and improved. This is where feeling bittersweet comes in.

Bittersweet is much more than chocolate, though that's a pretty good metaphor. It's actually an emotion of divine balance and integrity to the wholeness of life. There are things that feel good and things that don't feel good. Being human means experiencing the spectrum of emotions. There are different layers and levels. To expect to be in bliss all the time is not only unrealistic, but doesn't actual fit the mold for why you are here as a human being.

To feel bittersweet is to accept that at times with sadness also comes the joy. It's a yes, and emotion. It's always bittersweet to say farewell & there's next time.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Wednesday!

Wednesday's are a powerful day to discuss communication because it's also Mercury Day. The God of Mercury is all about communication and the planet is about to go retrograde. The tension is already present. I'm observing anger to be around.

Feeling angry is something that many of us desire to avoid, myself included and yet anger is a powerful teacher. While it can lead to scary experiences like violence, it's also shining a light on what isn't for us in a really urgent way. It's an alarm system that's really active and sensitive. To feel angry is to feel a deeply uncomfortable power within us that can make it hard to function. Typically, it brings us into our lowest frequency.

Anger is not wrong or bad. It's an emotion like any other. Anger is only an issue if you're not transmuting it. Processing anger will teach you so much. It has taught me so much and continues to. I used to get angry easily. Now I find myself angry much less of the time and when I am, it's powerful and short. I'm non-violent.

My sessions can ease your anger with Reiki, intention, intimacy, and massage. We can get to the core of it and release it together.

James

Namaste Everyone & Happy Tuesday!

I'm sorry to leave you blogless yesterday and also, it was what needed to happen. Sometimes what's happening within me and around me is more important than my getting a blog done that day. It's important to know ones boundaries when navigating unexpected whirlwinds, which is exactly how I would describe these last few days. This brings me to what this post is about - travel changes.

Some of you may have noticed by dates on my profile or my posts about travel that the dates and locations have shifted around a bit. To be transparent - this may happen a bit more, however I hope to solidify them in the next week. You can actually help make that happen by reaching out and booking your specific sessions for the location I/we are traveling to.

Here are the new dates and possibilities:

1. Denver, CO - Nov. 21st to 26th. This is now a solo trip and will only happen if someone books me an overnight

2. Houston, TX - Nov. 29th - Dec. 2nd. This is a short four-hand trip. Book me and Mercury before it's too late!

3. Santa Fe, NM - Dec. 20th - Jan. 2nd. This is now a solo trip and only out-call will be available.

Reach out to book before it's too late!

J

Namaste Everyone & Happy Sunday!

Recently, a lot of stories and discussions of embarrassment have been coming-up. Not only with my clients, but also with others around me. I thought this would be a great time to talk about embarrassment and how I navigate these sorts of things in hopes that it helps someone.

Most of us, I would imagine, have felt embarrassed before. It happens when the rules society lives by are broken and you get pointed out as out of alignment with what is mainstream. It also happens when being bullied or divinely meant to connect with someone who is meant to be the hero of that story.

No one likes to feel embarrassed because when we do, we often feel shame and maybe even regret. I am rather difficult to embarrass and I REALLY don't like it. Some enjoy this in an erotic form, which I totally respect and is also not something that I choose to experience. Feeling embarrassed can knock down ones confidence.

My clients report feeling embarrassed about their size, their weight, something about how their body looks or functions, or doesn't function. The list goes on. You can trust I will not judge you. I respect you for you. Your differences are perfect.

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Saturday!

Some of you may know that I was recently in Colorado for a personal trip. While I was hoping to make the trip professional, it didn't pan out. I wasn't sure that I would get an opportunity to come back and a door has opened.

This short tripe would be for a few days starting Nov. 21st. I am only taking this trip if there's a commitment for overnight solo or four-hand. Once there, I'm happy to take other clients. If you're interested in the overnight, let's have a call so you can make sure this is the best fit for you!

This offer includes:

8-10 hours Masseur's Choice PLUS. This is MUCH more than a massage experience. A unique and luxurious experience bringing pleasure, healing, and balance to the body, mind, and soul. Utilizing a combination of tools and techniques, James or James and Mercury will bring both intuition and skill to provide an unforgettable experience. This experience is therapeutic, sensual, and can be very erotic. It can include a more “Boyfriend experience”. It’s best for those who are looking to heal and relax in a way which benefits them longer than the session time. $1500 solo $3000 four-hand.

Reach out with you Q's!

J

Namaste Everyone and Welcome back! Happy Friday!

Today is the final big view of the Super Full Moon in Aries, however the energies are going to continue to be impactful for the next two weeks. Utilize them to manifest what you desire through releasing what you don't. Remain hope-FULL.

In full transparency, I've been navigating a personal experience with my fur babies that's been really scary, exhausting, and expensive. (No, animals are allowed in the healing room, so your sessions are animal-free). I'm putting a lot of energy and time into them right now. Some moments I feel anxious and worried, while other moments I bask in the hope that I have. I pray, journal, give Reiki, and ask for support from others to navigate these challenges.

Feeling hopeful or hope-FULL, as I like to think of it, is a lot of optimism with more surrender. Hope doesn't require an action, so much as being with the feeling. Hope often is cultivated through taking action and asking for support, however that's not needed to BE and FEEL hope.

Many of my clients are hoping for many different things. With my intention and Reiki infused sessions, your hopes can be answered. I'm here to support!

Gratitude,

J

Namaste Everyone. Happy Thursday and Happy Full Supermoon in Aries!

The energies are HUGE right now. The rollercoasters are going. The people are screaming and then catching their breath. The portals are open. Strange things are going on, virtually all the time and yet this chaos is wildly obvious to a lot of people. This is a time to "expect the unexpected" and then feel the emotions around that. When things are this up in the air, all we can do or sometimes all we feel we can do is to trust the universe.

Trust is important on the micro and macro level. It's an interesting emotion because it's one of those that is also deeply tied to action. Feeling trust is more like feeling trusted, trustworthy, or feeling like you can trust someone else.

Some people give their trust immediately, until it's broken, while others require the building of trust overtime where it's proven over and over again. The best way to trust is the way that feels best for you. Trust is deeply personal.

Building trust with my clients is something I love to do and put a lot of focus on. I have a big trust journey too, so I know how important it is. Trust creates safety. You will feel secure on my table.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Wednesday!

Wednesday's are connected to the God and planet, Mercury, which makes Wednesday's a wonderful day for communication. If you're holding something in, today is a day to be in your power and share it out loud. If not out loud, find some way to express within a pure trust zone. It's freeing in both the mind and heart.

In being vulnerable myself, I've been processing experiences of feeling insecure. Growing-up, I felt like the odd one out all the time. I felt very insecure because I was bullied and I was bullying myself as a result. Within my unconditional self-love journey, I have faced much of my insecurities and transformed my experiences around them. I get triggered much less and when I do, I love through them faster. There are insecurities that I no longer have and there are ones that have been very present with me lately.

As humans, most of us have felt insecure at one time or another because of how we are programmed to exist within certain standards. Standards or beauty to overall living. My clients come to me to feel unconditionally loved, seen, and validated.

You are AMAZING and your mix of special is perfect for you and the world.

J

Namaste Everyone & Happy Tuesday!

Recently, I mentioned this new service called the Intimacy Membership and I kept the details kind of vague because well, there's a lot one can say and not enough space to write. In the last post I expressed this offer was created after realizing the heart of every session was a desire for intimacy - no matter the person. Sure, this desire came in different levels and forms, but it's central to the experience and reason why people are coming. Whether realized or not, intimacy is a core piece of a massage experience. This also was create for those who desire to have massage experiences more frequently with less weight on the wallet.

The Intimacy Membership is available for Solo & Four-hand. It's available for one person or for couples. While the Membership can be customized to any offer, it's really best suited for the Masseur's Choice and overnights because we can provide the most value for the discount. The Membership is for a minimum of two sessions a month and the more frequent the better the price.

What do you get?

1. Sessions at a discount booked at the times you prefer.
2. Integration sessions - Video or Phone Call 24-48 hours after.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Sunday!

Given the recent holidays which just passed and the ones that are coming, there's more presence with the cycle of life and death around. During Autumn, there's a lot of transformation, which requires a death and rebirth process. As the leaves fall away, we release what no longer serves us and harvest the rewards of the year. Some of that can feel really difficult and others can feel relieving.

Tonight we're going to talk about some of the difficult parts because it's important to acknowledge them. With "loss" there is often a lot of regret. Regret is when you feel guilt and shame for doing or not doing something. It's a deep desire that something didn't happen the way that it did. At the end of ones life, they often speak to regrets.

Many of my have regrets they are healing from or are seeing me because they don't want to have any regrets around connecting with trans people. Regrets can be healed by acknowledging them, finding forgiveness, and transforming the memory.

If you have any curiosities around having an experience with a trans Masseur or you would like support healing your regrets held within the body, reach out to book a session.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Saturday!

Today, I'm feeling a bit raw, emotionally and I'm going to speak to an emotion which is part of this current experience. I want to discuss feeling ghosted.

Feeling ghosted comes from being ghosted, either intentionally or intentionally, and within reasons that help you accept it or circumstances you don't like. To be ghosted is to have someone disappear on you, so to feel ghosted is to feel that someone or people are disappearing on you. Whether you're ghosted intentionally or not can have an impact on how you feel about it after the fact, however in the moment it tends to not feel good. Feelings of disrespect and lack of care can come-up to the surface. This is true both personally and professionally.

Sometimes, the professional ghosting can hit even harder. Please don't ghost your Masseur. When you do, you're likely having a much bigger unwanted impact than you might realize. Our time is not less valuable, but equally valuable to yours. We also have families, obligations, bills, and more to navigate. When you disappear, you've wasted our time and potentially dampened our spirit. You've taken the opportunity for someone to get help.

J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Friday!

All humans feel vulnerable at one point or another. Before you say, "Not me!", remember that you were once an infant coming into a bright and loud world, from a safe dark haven. Vulnerability is a human emotion and experience, though I imagine that somewhere in this universe, others also feel vulnerable.

Vulnerability is often considered a superpower because having the courage to open-up and share what feels scary to say allows for fast transformations, as well as big impact. Though the original form of vulnerability focuses on the dangers of life and death, socially the term has come to mean something more of an emotional vulnerability. As humans, this is a very valid perspective and the one of which I'm choosing to focus right now.

If we desire to feel seen and heard - we must be vulnerable. While that doesn't always feel easy, it's something that gets easier with experience. The moment that you feel shamed or celebrated for your vulnerability gets locked into your system, the more vulnerable you felt and were at the time of your share.

My clients are safe to be vulnerable with me. I don't judge you. I hold space for you.

With Gratitude, J

Namaste Everyone and Happy Thursday,

I'm starting to run out of emotions, so we're coming to shame, which is pretty much unavoidable within the human experience. Okay, I'm kidding about running out of emotions - there are SO many. I'm not kidding about the shame being unavoidable because shame is the emotion resulting from judgement, which is something that is a part of the human experience.

Whether we want to admit it or not, we're all "judging" each other. The bigger question is are you observing or are you shaming. And if you're feeling shame for the judgements you've made within this paragraph or even today - stick around because this post is for you and I'm not judging you for it.

Shame is one of the most uncomfortable emotions and it's extremely common. Until we live in an unconditionally loving society, much like the natural state we all come from, shame will be rampant. Shame is the alarm system of doubt, imposter syndrome, insignificance, and overall doing something wrong. If we are judged within ourself, that's even more damaging. There's a cycle between judging ourselves and others judging us.

My clients are free from judgement when they are in my space.

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Tuesday!

Jupiter, the planet of luck is in Jupiter today. It remains in Gemini, a very social, playful, and adventurous sign. In a way, this could feel like a time where you're re-evaluating what play means for you and navigating new social circles. Perhaps you're experiencing some fear around the adventures you're about to embark on. Hang-on, but not too tight. Change is here and more is coming. Sometimes, things turn out even better than what we hoped for. Your luck is turning around.

Many of my clients are looking for a lucky break when it comes to loneliness. When I began providing this sacred service, I was under the impression that people were focused on the healing hands-on experience with a bit of extra fun. It didn't take long for me to realize that what clients really desired deep down, was intimacy. Even those in couples or with family, felt a sense of deep loneliness. They were lacking the acceptance & understanding they were hoping for - what they felt would make them feel loved. I bust this myth with my clients and show them how much the love within themselves is the key. Sacred touch & connection with energy healing brings relief.

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Monday!

Today is a celebratory day! It’s the second anniversary of my serving powerfully on Rent Masseur. It’s been a life changing journey.

Honestly, when I started to bring my gifts to this specific platform, I was uncertain how they would be received. I didn’t see a lot of mixed-modalities within spiritual and massage on here, let alone trans people. I wondered if I would fit in and if I would be desired.

I’ve been based from coast to coast and all of it has been worth it. I discovered so much about myself and the ways I can share my value. I bust a lot of myths in my mind from old programming about this sacred service and those who enjoy it.

Massage use to be so much more linear for me and now I’ve created services without leaving my gifts behind.

I’ve had the opportunity to serve clients of all walks of life, including those who had never met a trans person before. I’ve been able to educate and also learn from my clients.

It’s an honor to serve this community and transform your intimacy with yourself and others. If you’re looking for MORE than a typical massage, I’m here solo and with @mercuryrising.

With Gratitude & thanks,

James Source

Namaste Everyone & Happy Sunday!

Today we're going to dive into two different emotions & their unique contrast. I have been thinking SO MUCH about jealousy and compersion lately.

Jealousy is a well-known emotional experience, which doesn't tend to feel good. To feel jealous is to desire something that someone else has to a degree that it upsets you, or even makes you angry that they have it and you don't.

Compersion is less known and has become popularized within the ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) community and can expand to any sort of dynamic - romantic, platonic, and others in between. To have compersion for someone means that you are experiencing pure joy for someone else experiencing joy, even though you had nothing to do why they are experiencing the joy they are experiencing. It's the highest vibrational level of celebrating another's happiness.

So one could say that jealousy & compersion are complete opposites of one another. When one feels jealous, they may even feel resentful, while when one feels compersion, they may also feel bliss. If you're experiencing a lot of jealousy, you're not getting your needs met.

Reach out and release the jealousy by being the client.

J

Namaste Everyone & Happy Saturday!

Let's talk about royalty & I'm not talking about British Parliament. I'm talking about the concept of feeling royal and how this isn't something that is purely for those we have dubbed royal due to history. This is definitely not a history lesson.

Feeling royal is the emotional experience developed from the role-play or luxurious experience associated with royalty. This could look like a dom/sub kind of dynamic with or without costumes, having your body be worshipped, or even a super luxurious experience. What activities and experiences do you associate with royalty? Chances are it has to do with "special treatment" due to wealth and status.

Many of us don't know what that feels like, which is why The Overnight Experience exists. If you think the Masseur's Choice is luxurious, this is a significantly higher level. Within the 8-10 hours session, you'll feel like royalty. We will have time to address every ache, pain, and desire. It's luxurious intimacy and can even include the playful examples above. If you want to know what it is to be King, reach out to book this experience for solo or with myself & @Mercuryrising.

To the new king!

James

Namaste Everyone and Happy Friday!

I'm really excited to make this post right now because I'm really passionate about this experience. While I've discussed it a bit before, we're getting closer and I want to dive in deeper.

For those who don't know, myself and my massage partner @mercuryrising will be doing some traveling late November to Houston, Texas and some of the first part of December to Santa Fe, NM. Yes, once the exact travel dates are confirmed and it get's closer, we will attach the dates to the profile. There's a special reason why we're making these trips - to serve powerfully in a new way. While our time in Texas will be focused on our Masseur's Choice sessions, as well as others, Santa Fe is extra special.

Introducing (technically again), what we're now calling The Retreat Experience. We will be Co-hosting with another collaborator, TWO (3.5 Day) All-Inclusive Retreats in Santa Fe for duos who want to Rest, Reset & Recharge from 2024 to 2025. If you and someone you adore are interested, or if you're in Santa Fe/Texas, reach out to learn more! We're super excited to serve you in this private winter wonderland. It's going to be fun and transformative.

James Source

Namaste Everyone and Happy Thursday!

I hope you find my blog entertaining because we're about to talk about feeling bored.

Feeling bored seems to be a predominantly youthful experience. When I was a kid, I was always feeling bored the moment that I didn't do something. What's silly is that I was constantly doing things - sports, Girl Scouts, hanging out with friends, cooking, and more. While I lived in a the suburbs, even by the time I was able to drive, me and my friends were complaining about feeling bored.

Today, bored is an emotion that doesn't resonate with me at all. We live in a technological age! Between our computers in our pockets or on a wrist, and the natural world around us, there's a lot of stimulation. There are more activities possible than ever before and the amazing thing is that humanity keeps creating.

We don't like to feel bored because it's uncomfortable. Bored is a mindset. It's not actually something that's happening, it's something that you're feeling because of how you're thinking about what's happening. Feeling bored? Change it up.

I promise a session with me or with myself & @mercuryrising, you'll never be bored.

With Gratitude,

James